Izinyembezi ephusheni
Ekuchazeni amaphupho abesifazane, ukukhala kunezincazelo eziningi ezihluka kuye ngezimo namafomu. Lapho ekhuluma ngezinyembezi ephusheni lowesifazane, lokhu ngokuvamile kufanekisela imizwa yomhawu angase abe nayo. Nokho, uma ebona izinyembezi ezibandayo, lokhu kungase kubonise imizwa ecindezelekile ethambekele ekuhleleni nasekusebenziseni amasu, noma, ngokuphambene, ekulindeleni kwakhe izenzakalo ezijabulisayo.
Uma ebheka intombazane engashadile, uma ebona ekhala izinyembezi zenjabulo ephusheni, lokhu kubonisa ukuhlukaniswa kwakhe nesimo esikhethekile nomndeni wakhe, kanti kowesifazane oshadile, izinyembezi zenjabulo zibonisa ukuzinza kwakhe nesimo esikhethekile nomyeni wakhe.
Uma sicabangela iphupho lomuntu, ukubona umyeni ekhala izinyembezi ezimnyama angase aveze ukungabi nabulungisa abhekene nakho, kuyilapho izinyembezi ezibomvu zimelela ukweqa kwakhe kwemingcele nokubandakanyeka ezindabeni ezinqatshelwe. Izinyembezi eziphuzi zingase zibonise ukugula komyeni noma umhawu, kuyilapho izinyembezi eziluhlaza zifanekisela ukuhlukana nokuqhelelana nomfazi nokuphila kwezwe.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukukhala izinyembezi zokungcola emaphusheni abesifazane kubonisa umhawu nokuhaha. Uma owesifazane ebona ukuthi ukhala izinyembezi ezibalulekile njengegolide noma isiliva, lokhu kubonisa isikhundla esivelele nesilingo. Nakuba ukukhala ngeso lesokunxele kubonisa ukuthintwa umhlaba kanye nokukhathazeka kwawo.
Izinyembezi ephusheni ngu-Ibn Sirin
Izincazelo zamaphupho ezinyembezi ngaphandle kokukhala zinikeza umyalezo omuhle, njengoba kukholakala ukuthi zimemezela ukuncishiswa kokukhathazeka nokuhlupheka umuntu abhekana nakho ekuphileni kwakhe, kanye nokuba umethuli wokuphila kahle nokuqinisekiswa. Ngokwezincazelo zochwepheshe bokuchaza amaphupho, ukukhala ephusheni ngaphandle kokuklabalasa noma ukukhala kubonisa ukuthi umuntu, uma ebhekene nezinkinga zempilo, angase ajabulele impilo enhle kanye nokuthuthukiswa kwesimo sakhe.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukubonakala kwezinyembezi emaphusheni kanye nezingubo ezimnyama nokulila kubhekwa njengophawu olubonisa izindaba ezingemnandi ezingase ziholele ekuzizweni kokudabuka okujulile. Lolu hlobo lwephupho lubiza umuntu ukuthi azilungiselele ngokwengqondo ukuze abhekane nokwenzeka kwezinto ezidabukisayo.
Kunobukhulu encazelweni yokubona izinyembezi ephusheni, ikakhulukazi uma lezi zinyembezi ziphuma ekulaleleni iKur’an. Lolu hlobo lwephupho lubhekwa njengesimemo sokuzindla ngezenzo nokuziphatha kanye nesifiso esijulile sokubuyela endleleni efanele futhi siphenduke ezonweni naseziphambekweni. Lo mbono ubonisa isimo somuntu esingokomoya futhi umkhuthaza ukuba enze izinguquko ezinhle ekuphileni kwakhe.
Izinyembezi ephusheni kwabesifazane abangashadile
Ekuchazeni iphupho, ukubona ukukhala ephusheni lentombazane eyodwa kuyisibonakaliso esithwala izilinganiso eziningi kuye ngokuthi imininingwane yephupho. Lapho intombazane izibona ikhala buthule ngaphandle kokuklabalasa, lokhu kungase kuhunyushwe njengokubonisa izimfanelo zayo zomuntu siqu ezivelele nokwazisa ekujabulelayo endaweni eyizungezile. Futhi, lo mbono ungase ubonise isibikezelo esihle esihlobene nekusasa lakhe elingokomzwelo, njengoba kubonakala njengezindaba ezinhle ukuthi maduze uzoshada nomuntu omuhle futhi omuhle.
Uma intombazane ibona ephusheni layo ukuthi ikhala kakhulu ngesikhathi somngcwabo, lokhu kungahunyushwa njengesibonakaliso esihle esibonisa ukuthi uzongena esigabeni senjabulo nokugcwaliseka kwezifiso esikhathini esifushane. Lawa maphupho aphethe imilayezo yethemba eletha injabulo futhi ebikezela ubuhle obuzayo.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma ukukhala ephusheni kunamandla futhi kubuhlungu, lokhu kungase kuhunyushwe njengesixwayiso sokuthi intombazane ibhekene nenkathi yezithiyo nezinselele ezithile. Lo mbono ungase ukhombise ukuthi intombazane izobhekana nobunzima nezinselelo ezidinga isineke nokubekezela ukuze izuze lokho ekufisayo.
Ukukhala okuhambisana nokuklabalasa okukhulu ephusheni kungase kubonise ukuthi intombazane ihileleke ezinkingeni eziyinkimbinkimbi noma ezindabeni ekuthola kunzima ukuzinqoba noma ukuphuma kalula. Lolu hlobo lwephupho lungase lubonise isimo sokukhathazeka noma ukuphazamiseka intombazane ebhekene nayo empeleni.
Ekuphetheni, lezi zincazelo zamaphupho zibonisa ukuthi izincazelo zombono wokukhala ephusheni lentombazane eyodwa zingahluka kanjani, zibonise izincazelo ezihamba phakathi kokuhle nokubi ngokusekelwe emininingwaneni yephupho ngokwalo.
Izinyembezi ephusheni kowesifazane oshadile
Emaphusheni abesifazane abashadile, izinyembezi zivame ukuthwala izincazelo ezahlukene kuye ngokuthi umongo wephupho kanye nemizwa ehambisana nalo.
Lapho owesifazane oshadile ezithola ekhala ephusheni ngezinyembezi ezingenakho ukumemeza noma ezinye izinkulumo ezibuhlungu, leli phupho lingabhekwa njengezindaba ezinhle kanye nesibonakaliso sokuhlangenwe nakho okuhle okumlindile ekuphileni kwakhe. Lawa maphupho asikisela ukulinda izibusiso zezinto ezibonakalayo nezokuziphatha, njengengcebo nokuphila okwanele, ngaphezu kwezindaba ezijabulisayo ezihlobene namalungu omndeni, njengenzalo enhle.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma owesifazane oshadile ezithola ekhala ephusheni kodwa eklabalasa futhi eshaywa ebusweni, lokhu kungase kubonise izinselele noma ubunzima angabhekana nabo. Amaphupho anjalo angase abonise imizwa yokukhathazeka nokucindezeleka mayelana nezimo ezithile zokuphila, futhi angaba yisixwayiso kowesifazane ngesidingo sokubhekana nezinkinga ezithile noma izinselele empilweni yakhe.
Amaphupho ahlanganisa izinyembezi angaba nezinhlobonhlobo zezincazelo nezincazelo, kuye ngemininingwane ethile yephupho kanye nesimo sengqondo somphuphi esingokwengqondo nesomzwelo eqinisweni. Izinyembezi emaphusheni zingase ziveze injabulo nesibusiso, futhi zingase zibe uphawu lokudabuka nezinselele.
Izinyembezi ephusheni kowesifazane okhulelwe
Ekuchazeni amaphupho, ukubona owesifazane okhulelwe ekhala ngaphandle kokusebenzisa ukuklabalasa nokukhala kunezincazelo ezithile ezihlobene nekusasa lomntwana. Lapho owesifazane okhulelwe ezibona ekhala izinyembezi ngokuthula nangokuthula, lokhu kubonakala kuwuphawu oluhle olubonisa ukufika komntwana wesilisa oyobonakala ngokulunga nomusa kubazali bakhe. Le ngane kulindeleke ukuthi ibe nekusasa elithembisayo eligcwele impumelelo.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma owesifazane okhulelwe efakaza ephusheni lakhe ukuthi ukhala kakhulu futhi ememeza kakhulu, lokhu kungahunyushwa njengesibonakaliso sokukhathazeka okuhlobene nempilo yengane ezayo. Lo mbono uveza ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi ingane izobhekana nezinselele zempilo ngemva kokuzalwa.
Ngowesifazane ozithola ekhala ngokuqhubekayo futhi isikhathi eside ephusheni, lokhu kungase kubonise ukukhathazeka kwakhe nokwesaba inqubo yokuzalwa ngokwayo. Le mizwa ejulile yokukhathazeka ngokuzala iyinto evamile phakathi kwabesifazane abakhulelwe.
Izinyembezi ephusheni kowesifazane ohlukanisile
Uma owesifazane ohlukanisile ephupha ukuthi ukhala izinyembezi ngokuthula futhi ngaphandle kokwenza umsindo, lokhu kuhunyushwa ngokuthi kusho ukuthi impilo yakhe ingase ibone ushintsho oluhle olungase lumelwe ukungena komuntu omusha ozomnxephezela okwedlule. Nakuba uma efakaza ephusheni lakhe ukuthi ukhala njalo futhi ezwakalayo, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuthi ubhekene nezinselele eziningi nobunzima empilweni yakhe.
Izinyembezi ephusheni endodeni
Uma umuntu ephupha ukuthi uyakhala ngaphandle kokwenza umsindo, lo mbono ungase ulethe izindaba ezinhle mayelana nohambo oluzayo oluzomlethela imali eningi. Uma ekhala ngesikhathi efunda iKur’an eNgcwele, lokhu kukhombisa isidingo sakhe esiphuthumayo sokuqinisa ukuxhumana kwakhe noNkulunkulu futhi athathe isinyathelo sokulungisa inkambo yokuphila kwakhe okungokomoya ngokuziqhelelanisa nezenzo ezingamjabulisi uNkulunkulu.
Kodwa-ke, uma ezibona ekhala ephusheni ngenkathi egqoke izingubo ezimnyama, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi udlula enkathini egcwele izinkathazo nezinkinga ezingase ziholele emizweni yokucindezeleka okukhulu. Nakuba ukukhala okunzima ephusheni ngaphandle komsindo kungase kubikezele ukufika kobuhle obuningi nokuziphilisa okuchichimayo esikhathini esizayo esiseduze.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngokusula izinyembezi zomuntu
Ezweni lamaphupho, kunezimpawu eziningi nezincazelo ezihlangene. Isibonelo, lapho umuntu ephupha ukuthi womisa izinyembezi zakhe, lokhu kungahunyushwa njengenkomba yokuhlanzeka kwenhliziyo yakhe nokuthambekela kwakhe ekubekezeleni nasekuzihawukeleni.
Nokho, uma iphupho lihlanganisa indawo yendoda esula izinyembezi zomunye umuntu, lokhu kuqokomisa izinga lakhe lobuntu nokuzimisela kwakhe njalo ukunikeza usizo nesiqondiso kwabanye, ebonisa umoya wokuzibophezela komphakathi nokukhathalela okuhle okuvamile.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokukhala ngezinyembezi
Iphupho lomuntu okhulelwe elikhipha izinyembezi ezinzima eziwela enkomishini liyinkulumo engokomfanekiso ebikezela izikhathi ezinzima ezizayo, njengoba lezi zinyembezi zihlanganisa usizi nokuhlangenwe nakho okubuhlungu angase abhekane nakho esikhathini esizayo esiseduze. Futhi, ukukhala izinyembezi ephusheni kubonisa isimo sokudabuka okujulile futhi kubhekwa njengombono oyisixwayiso wokuhlangenwe nakho okungalungile kanye nezindaba ezidumazayo.
Izinyembezi zegazi ephusheni
Uma umuntu ephupha ekhala izinyembezi ezixubene negazi, lokhu kungase kubonise isimo sokuphambuka endleleni kamoya futhi awele ochungechungeni lwamaphutha angase amenze alahlekelwe ukholo. Nakuba uma intombazane izibona ephusheni ikhala izinyembezi ezixutshwe negazi, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuzisola nokuphenduka ngenxa yamaphutha athile ekwenzile. Lolu hlobo lwephupho lungasebenza njengesixwayiso kumuntu ukuba acabange kabusha ukuziphatha kwakhe futhi afune ukulungisa inkambo yakhe.
Izinyembezi zomuntu ofile ephusheni
Ekuchazeni amaphupho, ukubona umuntu ofile ekhala kakhulu futhi nezinyembezi eziningi zigeleza kuye kungabonisa isimo esingagculisi somufi noMdali, futhi kulokhu kuyalulekwa ukuba simkhulekele kakhulu ukuze ehlise ukuhlushwa kwakhe.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma kubonakala ephusheni ukuthi umama womuntu oshonile uyakhala, lokhu kungase kube ubufakazi bokubhekana nezinkinga zezezimali noma ukucindezeleka empilweni yomphuphi, futhi kungase kube inkomba yokuthi kungenzeka ukuhlupheka ukugula. Kwesinye isimo, uma umphuphi ebona ukuthi umama kamufi ukhala izinyembezi ephusheni, khona-ke lo mbono ubonisa ukwaneliseka komama oshonile nomphuphi.
Izinyembezi zenjabulo ephusheni
Lapho umuntu ephupha ekhala izinyembezi zenjabulo, lo mbono ubhekwa njengophawu oluhle olubikezela ikusasa eligcwele injabulo nenduduzo. Lolu hlobo lwephupho luza njengomlayezo okhuthazayo, ikakhulukazi kulabo ababhekene nezinselele noma ubunzima ezimpilweni zabo. Kungahunyushwa njengezithembiso zokunqoba usizi futhi isikhathi esingcono siyeza emkhathizwe.
Ekhala izinyembezi ephusheni
Ekuchazeni amaphupho, izincazelo nezincazelo ziyahlukahluka kuye ngokuthi isimo somphuphi kanye nalokho abhekene nakho empilweni yakhe. Isithombe esisodwa esivamile esingase sivele emaphusheni ukukhala. Ukukhala ephusheni ngaphandle kokugeleza izinyembezi kungase kusikisele ukubhekana nezikhathi ezinzima ngaphambili noma mhlawumbe ukulahlekelwa umuntu oseduze. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukukhala izinyembezi ezibandayo kungahunyushwa njengenkomba yokudedela ukucindezeleka nezinkinga, nokujabulela ukunethezeka kwengqondo.
Kwabesifazane, ukubona ukukhala ephusheni ngaphandle kwezinyembezi eziwela kungase kubonise ukuchayeka esilingweni noma ukungena emaphutheni, kucatshangelwa ukuthi izinyembezi ephusheni zimelela ukuzihlanza ezonweni.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma umuntu ezibona ekhala ngaphandle kwezinyembezi ngenkathi efunda i-Qur’an ephusheni lakhe, khona-ke lokhu kungabhekwa njengophawu lobuhle nenjabulo eyokweqa ukuphila kwakhe, okuholela ezinguqukweni eziningi ezinhle kamuva.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokukhalela owesifazane ongashadile ngokusho kuka-Al-Nabulsi
Lapho imizwa yokukhala nokuklabalasa ibonakala ephusheni lomuntu, lokhu kungase kubonise okuhlangenwe nakho noma izikhathi zokudabuka ezingase zenzeke kuye. Nakuba, uma ukukhala ephusheni kuwumphumela wokwesaba uNkulunkulu futhi ngesikhathi sokuphindaphinda amavesi e-Qur'an eNgcwele, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuguqulwa kwezimo zibe ngcono, njengoba kubonisa ukushabalala kwezinkathazo kanye nokufika kwenjabulo. kanye nokuqinisekiswa okungokomoya komuntu.
Ukuhunyushwa kombono wokukhalela owesifazane ongashadile, ememeza noma ngaphandle kokumemeza
Ekubonakalisweni kwesimo sentombazane eyodwa lapho ikhala, izici zezinyembezi zifihla imilayezo ehlukahlukene ebonisa isiphetho sakhe esizayo. Uhlengezela izinyembezi athule angazwakali noma aphakamise izwi, okuqhamuka emkhathizwe kuyizimpawu zokuzikhulula ekukhathazekeni nasezinkingeni eziphazamise impilo yakhe, zivule indlela yenjabulo yokusa kanye nethemba lokufika kwekusasa eliqhakazile.
Kunalokho, izincazelo ziyahlukahluka lapho izinyembezi zixutshwa nokuzwakala okukhulu kwezwi nomsindo wokuklabalasa, njengoba lokhu kunjengokungathi umphefumulo uvula isango ukuze uthole izigcawu zokucindezeleka nezindaba ezingathwali lutho ngaphandle kwezinhlekelele zokuphila. kanye nobunzima bokuphila.
Ngokombono okhethekile, izikhathi zokukhala ezivela emizweni ejulile kanye nenhlonipho ziyabonakala ngenkathi ufunda i-Qur'an, okuphakamisa izinga lokusondelana nokunamathela kuNkulunkulu Ohloniphekile. Kulo mongo, izinyembezi ziba ukubonakaliswa komphefumulo ophucwa yonke into ngaphandle kwesihe soMdali, futhi zikhombisa ubuqotho bokwephulwa nomuzwa wokungabi nabulungisa, njengokungathi inhliziyo ibhala phansi izindaba zobuhlungu ebuzwayo. ngezinyembezi zalo.
Njengoba izinyembezi zihlangana nezincazelo zazo emiphethweni yomphefumulo, kuzo zonke izimo, ziyimiyalezo edlulisa izehlakalo ezifihliwe zentombazane Zonke izinyembezi zinendaba ngaphakathi kwayo, futhi konke ukuthula noma ukukhala kwembula imihlaba yemizwa nezimfihlo lokho uyaphila.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngokubona umuntu ekhala ngowesifazane ongashadile ephusheni
Lapho owesifazane ebona unina ekhala, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi unina ubhekene nezikhathi ezinzima ezidinga ukusekelwa ngokomzwelo nosizo kuye. Uma ubona umuntu ekhala ngokuthula kusho ukuthi izikhathi ezinzima sezizophela futhi izinkinga zizoxazululeka maduze.
Ukubona umuntu ongaziwa kubonisa ukulindela ikusasa eligcwele ubuhle nezibusiso. Nakuba ukubona umuntu ojwayelekile ekhala kuyinkomba yokufezeka kwamathemba nezifiso. Uma umbono umayelana nomlingani noma othandekayo, lokhu kumemezela umshado esikhathini esizayo esiseduze. Uma othile ebonakala ekhala ngenxa yokulahlekelwa umuntu ofile, lokhu kuhunyushwa njengesixwayiso sesidingo esiphuthumayo sokuphenduka futhi sibuyele kuNkulunkulu.
Ekhalela abangasekho ephusheni owesifazane oyedwa
Izinyembezi zomuntu nendlela aveza ngayo ukudabuka kuyehluka kuye ngezimo nabantu. Ukukhala buthule futhi ngaphandle kwezinyembezi kungase kubonise umuzwa wokulangazelela nokudabuka ngokushonelwa othandekayo.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, izinyembezi ezihambisana nokufunda iKur’an ngokuzwakalayo ziveza ukukhululeka osizini nethemba lokuza kobuhle nokuqiniseka ngokuzayo. Kukhona abaluveza ngendlela ebuhlungu kakhulu usizi lwabo njengokuklebhula izingubo okukhombisa umunyu wokulahlekelwa nobuhlungu obukhulu abakubo. Zonke lezi zinkulumo zibonisa imizwa ejulile neyinkimbinkimbi umuntu aba nayo lapho ebhekene nokulahlekelwa.
Ukuhunyushwa kokukhala kakhulu ngomuntu omthandayo ephusheni
Lapho izinyembezi zixutshwe nomuzwa wokudabuka, ngokuvamile lokhu kuhunyushwa ngokuthi kusho ukuthi umuntu angase abhekane nezinselele ezinkulu noma ukulimala, noma ngisho sengozini yokufa. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma izinyembezi zigeleza buthule ngaphandle kokulila noma usizi, khona-ke lokhu kungase kumemezele ukufika kwezindaba ezijabulisayo eziletha injabulo nezindaba ezinhle kumuntu othintekayo.
