Eshisa ubuso ephusheni
Ukubona ubuso bushiswa lapho ulele kungenye yemibono edonsa amehlo futhi kungase kubangele ukukhathazeka kwabaningi, futhi kuphakama umbuzo mayelana nencazelo yalo mbono.
Abanye abahumushi, njengo-Ibn Sirin, bathi lolu hlobo lwephupho lubonisa ukubhekana nezithiyo nezinkathazo esikhathini esizayo, njengoba lifanekisela ukudlula ezikhathini ezigcwele izinselele nezikhathi ezinzima.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abanye abahumushi, njengo-Imam Nabulsi, bakholelwa ukuthi lo mbono uphethe izindaba ezinhle, njengoba ubonisa izici ezinhle nokuziphatha okuphezulu komphuphi.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kunezincazelo ezikhomba ukuthi lo mbono ungase ube nemibono engemihle, ikakhulukazi kwabesifazane abashadile, njengoba ungase ubonise ukuntula isimilo noma ukuphambuka enkolweni.
Emantombazaneni angashadile, kungase kubonise ukuthi aphathwa ngendlela engenabulungisa noma ayaxhashazwa.
Ngokusekelwe kulezi zincazelo ezahlukene, labo ababona umbono onjalo bayelulekwa ukuba bawuthathe njengesibonakaliso sokulungela nokusebenza ukuze bagweme ubunzima futhi bathole noma yiziphi izinkinga ezingase zize ngokucacile nangokulungela.
Ukushisa ubuso ephusheni owesifazane oshadile
Owesifazane osebudlelwaneni bomshado uzithola esesimweni sokukhathazeka ngokwedlulele ngemuva kokubona iphupho eshiswa ubuso bakhe.
Lawa maphupho avame ukubandakanya ukuphazamiseka okukhulu futhi abonise izinkinga ezingase ziphazamise ubuhlobo phakathi kwabashadile.
Izincazelo zamaphupho anjalo ziyahlukahluka ukufaka amathuba okukhashelwa noma izingxabano, okubonisa ukubaluleka kokubamba inkhulumomphendvulwano eyakhayo phakathi kwezinhlangothi ezimbili ukubhekana nezimbangela zezinkinga ezivelele.
Lawa maphupho angase futhi aveze umuzwa wokunganeli noma wenjabulo phakathi kobudlelwane bomshado, ngokuthambekela kokugqashula kulesi simo.
Kungenzeka futhi ukuthi kuyinkomba yezinselelo unkosikazi abhekana nazo emsebenzini noma ekuxhumaneni kwakhe nomphakathi, okudinga ukuthi enze imizamo eyengeziwe yokuthuthukisa lezi zici.
Kudingeka ukuthi owesifazane oshadile anakekele ngokukhethekile lezi zibonakaliso futhi asebenze ukuze axazulule izinkinga ezikhona Kungase kube isikhathi esifanele sokubhekana nalezi zinkinga futhi asebenze ukuze afeze ukuthuthukiswa okubonakalayo ebuhlotsheni bomshado kanye nokuphila komphakathi.
Ukuhunyushwa kokubona ubuso obuvuthayo ephusheni kwabesifazane abangashadile
Uma intombazane engashadile iphupha ukuthi ubuso bayo buyashiswa, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuthi ubhekene nezinselele endleleni yakhe ekufinyeleleni ukuzinza ngokomzwelo nezenhlalakahle.
Lo mbono ungase ubonise ubunzima ekutholeni umlingani wokuphila ofana nalokho akulindele kanye nemigomo yakhe.
Nokho, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi lawa maphupho awazona ngempela izimpawu ezingezinhle, kodwa kunalokho angaba isimemo sokubhekana ngokuhlakanipha nokwenza imizamo eyengeziwe yokunqoba izithiyo.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, iphupho eliphathelene nokushisa ubuso lingabonisa isidingo sokuqapha ekuhwebeni kwezezimali nokungathembeki kolwazi olungathembekile noma abantu.
Ingase futhi ibonise amathuba okuchayeka ezinkingeni zempilo ezidinga ukunakwa.
Lawa maphupho asebenza njengezixwayiso zokuthi uqaphe futhi uqaphe ezicini ezahlukene zempilo.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokushiswa ubuso kwabesilisa
Okuhlangenwe nakho kwamaphupho ahlanganisa ukushisa ubuso emadodeni kungenye yezinto ezithwala izincazelo ezijulile futhi zidinga ukucatshangelwa kwezincazelo zakho.
Abahumushi bamaphupho bakholelwa ukuthi umbono onjalo ungase ube inkomba yokuthi umuntu ubhekene nezinselele ezihlukahlukene nobunzima, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi usezingeni elisebenzayo noma lomuntu siqu.
Ingase futhi iveze imizwa yokuntula ukuzethemba nokungabaza ngekhono lokunqoba izithiyo zesikhathi esizayo.
Ngokombono omuhle kakhudlwana, lawa maphupho angahunyushwa njengesikhuthazo sokukhula komuntu siqu nokwakha ukuzethemba.
Ochwepheshe bagcizelela ukubaluleka kokubhekana nalezi zinselele ngesibindi nokusebenza kanzima ukufeza izinhloso nezifiso zabo.
Ekugcineni, ukuhumusha lawa maphupho kungasiza umuntu akhuthaze ugqozi nokuzimisela ukuze anqobe ubunzima futhi azuze impumelelo endleleni yakhe yokuphila.
Ukubona umuntu oshile ephusheni
Ukubuka umuntu eshiswa ephusheni kungase kuvuse imizwa yokwesaba nokukhathazeka ngenxa yonya lwalo mbono.
Lawa maphupho aphethe izincazelo eziningi nemilayezo, njengoba engafanekisela ukuthi umphuphi uwele ochungechungeni lwamaphutha noma izono ezidinga ukucatshangelwa nokuzihlola.
Lo mbono usebenza njengesibonakaliso esiyisixwayiso kumuntu mayelana nesidingo sokushiya indlela yokuziphatha okubi okungamlethi nzuzo.
Iphinde ikhuthaze umuntu ukuthi alandele indlela yokulunga kanye nokuhlonipha uNkulunkulu, futhi aziqhelelanise nezindlela ezingalungile.
Kubalulekile futhi ukuqaphela ukuthi incazelo yala maphupho ingase yehluke kuye ngokuthi umuntu ngamunye unjani kanye nemininingwane yombono, njengokuthi ubani oshisiwe kanye nendawo lapho lezi zenzakalo zenzeka khona.
Ukuze uthole ukuqonda okujulile nokwandiswa kokuhumusha, kunconywa ukuthi ubhekisele emithonjeni yokuhumusha etholakalayo.
Incazelo yokubona owesifazane onobuso obushile ephusheni
Ukubona ubuso bonakaliswe ukushiswa amaphupho kukhombisa isimo sengqondo nesomzwelo umuntu abhekene naso.
Kwezinye izincazelo, lo mbono ubonisa isipiliyoni sobuhlungu nokudabuka okujulile ngenxa yokulahlekelwa umuntu oseduze, noma ukuchayeka ekuhluphekeni kokucindezeleka nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo.
Abantu ngabanye kufanele bacabangele umongo womuntu siqu kanye nemininingwane yephupho ngaphambi kokuba bafinyelele eziphethweni ezithile mayelana nezincazelo zalo.
Lawa maphupho abonisa izinga isimo sangaphakathi somuntu esithinteka ngalo izimo zokuphila kwakhe, futhi aqondiswe ekuzuzeni izincazelo ezilotshiwe nokufuna usizo lwalabo abalwazi nokuqonda kwamaphupho abathembayo.
Umuntu kufanele futhi akholwe ukuthi uNkulunkulu uyakwazi okusezinhliziyweni futhi uyakwazi ukuthumela izimpawu ngamaphupho ukuze aqondise abantu ngabanye futhi abasekele ohambweni lwempilo.
Mayelana nencazelo yokubona ubuso obushisiwe bowesifazane ohlukanisile, leli phupho lingase libe nezincazelo eziningi ezihlobene nezinselele nobunzima angase abhekane nazo, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo, liphethe inkomba yekhono lokunqoba lezi zinselele futhi uqhubekele phambili. ekufezeni izinhloso.
Iphupho liphinde lithinte ubuhle bomlingiswa kanye nokuziphatha okuhle okuhlukanisa umuntu ophuphayo, okuthuthukisa ukuzethemba futhi kubonisa ubuhle bomphefumulo nobuntu.
Owesifazane ohlukanisile kufanele abheke izindlela ezinhle zokubhekana nezinkinga zakhe futhi andise ukuba khona kwakhe okuphumelelayo ekuphileni, ngaphandle kokwesaba imibono, kodwa ukubhekana nazo ngokuqaphela nokuhlakanipha.
Ngibone ubuso bomyeni wami bushile ephusheni
Ukubona ubuso bomlingani wakho bonakaliswe ephusheni kungase kuvuse imizwa yokwesaba nokungakhululeki, futhi kungase kuvuse isimo sokukhathazeka emphefumulweni.
Kodwa kuyadingeka ukuqaphela ukuthi amaphupho anjalo awabonisi ngempela ikusasa noma iqiniso lamanje.
Ngezinye izikhathi, iphupho lingase libonise ukuthi kunezinselele noma izinkinga okudingeka kukhulunywe ngazo futhi zixazululwe phakathi kwabalingani ababili, noma kungase kube isixwayiso sokunaka izingozi ezingase zibe khona.
Iphupho lingabuye lihunyushwe njengenkomba yokucasuka nobunzima obungase buvele endleleni yokuphila evamile, futhi libonisa ukubaluleka kokubhekana nalokhu kungqubuzana ngokuhlakanipha nokubekezela.
Kubalulekile ukuthatha iphupho njengesikhumbuzo sokuthi umuntu kufanele enze isibindi lapho ebhekene nezinselele, futhi angazigwemi.
Kunconywa ukuthi ube nenkhulumomphendvulwano evulekile nomlingani wakho mayelana nokuqukethwe kwephupho, umqinisekise ukuthi lokho okubonile akunakubaluleka okungokoqobo futhi akuyona into engaphezu kwephupho.
Uma kuphakama izinselele phakathi kobudlelwano, kuyadingeka ukukhuluma ngokucacile, ukulalela imibono yomunye umuntu, futhi usebenzisane kahle.
Naphezu kwemvelo ephazamisayo yephupho, ukuqaphela kufanele kugcinwe ukuthi kumane kuyisithombe esicatshangelwayo hhayi ukubonakaliswa kweqiniso.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokushisa ubuso ngamafutha
Phakathi nokuphila, umuntu angase azithole ecwile emaphusheni abangela ukudideka nomuzwa wokukhathazeka Phakathi kwalawa maphupho kuba nephupho lokushiswa ubuso ngamafutha, okubonisa ukufanekisa okujulile mayelana nokuhlangenwe nakho nezinhlekelele umuntu angase azithole. Dlula.
Kukholelwa ukuthi leli phupho libonisa izithiyo nezinselele ezizofika endleleni yomphuphi, ezidinga izinga eliphezulu lokubekezela namandla okuzinqoba.
Otolika bakholelwa ukuthi imibono enjalo ingase ibe inkomba yesidingo sokuzilungiselela ukubhekana nezikhathi ezinzima ezingase zihlanganise izimo ezinzima nezinethonya.
Ugcizelela isidingo sokungazinikeli kulobu bunzima, kodwa kunalokho ukubhekana nabo ngokuzinza nokuzimisela, kuyilapho kugcinwa ukholo emandleni okubunqoba.
Leli phupho liphinde libhekise emcabangweni wokuzivumelanisa nezingcindezi zempilo, kungaba sendaweni yobungcweti noma yomuntu siqu, njengoba umphuphi edingeka ukuthi athuthukise ikhono lokubhekana nemithwalo yemfanelo ekhulayo kanye nezinselelo ezintsha ngokungathí sina nangokuzimisela.
Ezimweni zokukhathazeka okungase kubangele amaphupho anjalo, umphuphi welulekwa ukuba alwele ukufeza ukuthula kwengqondo futhi aphendukele emthandazweni nokunxusa, njengendlela yokunciphisa ukucindezeleka nokufuna ukuthula kwangaphakathi.
Ukushisa isigamu sobuso ephusheni kwabesifazane abangashadile
Kwamanye amaphupho lapho owesifazane ongashadile ebonakala eshile ingxenye yobuso bakhe, lokhu kungahunyushwa njengokubonisa isimo sokucindezeleka nokukhathazeka mayelana nezinselele zomuntu siqu abhekana nazo.
Leli phupho lingase libonise ukuthi uzizwa elahlekile futhi unobunzima bokufinyelela imigomo yakhe ebalulekile.
Uma owesifazane ephusheni engagqoki i-hijab, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuphikisana phakathi kwamagugu akhe nesithombe esiveza emhlabeni noma ukuzimisela kwakhe ukwenza izinguquko ezinkulu ekuphileni kwakhe.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma egqoke i-hijab, lokhu kungase kubonise isifiso sakhe sokufuna ukuzinza ngokomoya nangokwengqondo.
Leli phupho lingathathwa njengesibonakaliso sesigaba sokukhula ngokomoya kanye nokuthuthukiswa komuntu siqu, njengoba ukuvutha kubonakala njengophawu lokuguqulwa okujulile nokubuyiselwa ekuphileni.
Owesifazane ohlangabezana nephupho elinjalo uyelulekwa ukuba acabange ngesimo sakhe sangaphakathi futhi asihlaziye ngokucophelela, efuna ukuthuthukiswa futhi abhekane nezinselele ngesibindi.
Ukuvutha izinwele zobuso ephusheni
Emaphusheni ahlanganisa indawo yezinwele ezivuthayo ebusweni, umuntu uvame ukuzwa imizwa yokwesaba nokungakhululeki lapho evuka.
Ukuchazwa kwalawa maphupho kuthinteka isimo senhlalo somphuphi, kanye nezimo zephupho ngokwalo.
Umuntu ebona izinwele zobuso bakhe zivutha ephusheni kungase kube isibonakaliso sokusuka kwakhe ezindleleni ezingalungile futhi abuyele ekulungeni nasekukhonzeni, njengoba abanye abahumushi bekholelwa.
Leli phupho lingase libonise umuzwa womphuphi wokuzisola ngamaphutha kanye nesifiso sokuwanqoba.
Ukwengeza, iphupho lingase lithwale izincazelo ezihlobene nosizi nezinselele ezingase zivele ekuphileni komphuphi esikhathini esizayo, okudinga ukuba azilungiselele futhi aqaphe ukubhekana nanoma yiziphi izinkinga ezingase zifike.
Eshisa ubuso bomufi ephusheni
Amaphupho nemibono iphethe imfihlakalo eheha abantu abaningi.
Ngaphakathi kwalo mkhakha, iphupho lokubona ubuso bomuntu ofile busha lingelinye lamaphupho enza abaningi bazibuze ngezincazelo zawo.
Abanye bakholelwa ukuthi lo mbono ubonisa isidingo somphefumulo oshonile ukuba uthandaze futhi ucele intethelelo kwabaphilayo ngenxa yawo, okubonisa ukubaluleka kokuphikelela ezenzweni zokukhulekela ezinjengokuthandaza, ukuzila ukudla, nokupha izipho egameni likamufi.
Ukubona ubuso bomuntu ofile bushiswa nakho kubonakala njengenkomba yemizwa yothando nokukhathazeka lowo ophuphayo anakho ngomufi, kanye nezifiso zakhe zokunciphisa ubuhlungu nokuhlupheka kwakhe.
Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi incazelo yamaphupho ayisekelwe ezisekelweni ezithile zesayensi, futhi ayikwazi ukubhekwa njengomkhakha ohlinzeka ngezinkomba eziqinisekisiwe mayelana nemibono nezincazelo zayo.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuvutha emzimbeni
Ukubona umlilo noma ukushisa ephusheni kuyinkomba yesigaba esinzima soguquko umuntu adlula kuso empilweni yakhe.
Lesi sigaba singase sigcwele izinselele ezingokwengqondo nezingokomzimba ezibeka umuntu esimweni sokucindezeleka ngokomzwelo nangokomsebenzi.
Amaphupho anjalo angadalula ukuba khona kwezinkinga zempilo noma ukucindezeleka kwengqondo okungase kuthinte kabi isimo esivamile somuntu.
Ukuthola amaphupho anjalo kungase kubonise ukuthi umuntu uzizwa engenakuzisiza futhi engakwazi ukulawula inkambo yokuphila kwakhe, okumholela ekubeni azizwe ecindezelekile futhi edumazekile.
Ukuzindla ngezincazelo zalawa maphupho nokufuna usizo lochwepheshe kuyizinyathelo ezibalulekile zokululama kanye nokuthola ukuthula nokuzinza kwengqondo.
Umlayezo obalulekile okufanele umuntu ngamunye awukhiphe kule mibono uhlala uyithemba loshintsho olungcono kanye nokholo emandleni akhe okunqoba izithiyo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi zinzima kangakanani.
Le mibono ifaka ithemba emiphefumulweni yethu, isikhumbuza ukuthi zonke izinsizi zinesiphelo nokuthi ukusa kuza ngemva kobumnyama obukhulu.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokushiswa netiye
Abantu abaningi banesithakazelo sokwazi izincazelo zokubona ukusha ngenxa yokuchitheka kwetiye emaphusheni abo, futhi bayazibuza ukuthi yimiphi imilayezo ethwala lolu hlobo lwephupho.
Abanye abahumushi bakholelwa ukuthi amaphupho anjalo angase abonise ukuba khona kwamaphutha athile noma izono ekuphileni komuntu, kanti abanye bakholelwa ukuthi bangase bamemezele izindaba ezinhle ezizayo.
Kubalulekile ukugcizelela ukuthi ukuchazwa kwalawa maphupho akulungisiwe futhi kuyahlukahluka kuye ngezimo nezimo zempilo yomphuphi.
Ochwepheshe besayensi yokuchaza amaphupho ngezinye izikhathi bahlobanisa le mibono nomuzwa wokukhathazeka nokungezwani okungokwengqondo umuntu abhekana nakho, noma okuhlangenwe nakho okubuhlungu adlula kukho esikhathini esidlule.
Kodwa-ke, ochwepheshe batusa ukunaka kakhulu ukuchazwa kwamaphupho, futhi ungawabheki njengesiqondiso esinqumayo sokwenza izinqumo ekuphileni.
Bacabanga ukuthi amaphupho angase abe ukubonakaliswa kokwesaba okungenasisekelo eqinisweni, futhi kufanele kubhekwane nakho ngokunengqondo nokucabanga okunengqondo.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokushisa ubuso ngamanzi omlilo
Lapho umuntu ebona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi ubuso bakhe bushiswa uketshezi olushisa kakhulu, lo mbono ungase umenze akhathazeke futhi angakhululeki.
Lo mbono ubhekisela eqenjini lezinselele nezimo ezinzima umuntu angase abhekane nazo ekuphileni kwakhe.
Nokho, ukubekezela nokunganqotshwa ukukhathazeka kuyadingeka ezimweni ezinjalo ukubhekana nezikhathi ezinzima ngesibindi nesibindi kuyingxenye yokuphila kwawo wonke umuntu.
Ngokwezincazelo zezazi ezithile nabahumushi, iphupho lobuso obushiswe ngamanzi ashisayo libonakala njengenkomba yezimfanelo ezithile ezinhle zomphuphi bonisa uhlobo lobudlelwano bomuntu siqu noma izimo ahlala kuzo.
Lo mbono ubhekwa njengesimemo sokuzindla ngempilo yomphuphi futhi udinga ukuba awuthathe njengesignali ukuze ahlole kabusha indlela yakhe yokuphila futhi acabange ngokwenza izinguquko ezidingekayo ukuze athuthukise ikusasa lakhe.
Lapho ebhekene nezinselele ezinjalo, umuntu kufanele ahlale egxilile futhi afune izindlela ezifanele zokunqoba izithiyo, kanjalo ezama ukuzuza umphumela ongcono kakhulu wekusasa lakhe.
