Ikhethini ephusheni lika-Ibn Sirin
Ekuchazeni amaphupho ngaphakathi kwesiko lama-Arabhu, ikhethini liphethe izincazelo ezithile ezingokomfanekiso ezihlobene nesimo somuntu esingokwengqondo nokuhlupheka komuntu siqu.
Kulo mongo, ikhethini libhekwa njengophawu lokukhathazeka nezinkinga umuntu abhekana nazo ekuphileni kwakhe.
Kulo mbono, ikhethini eligugile noma elidabukile lifanekisela izinkinga zesikhashana nobunzima obuzoshabalala ngokushesha, kuyilapho ikhethini elisha nelinempilo libonisa izinkinga ezihlala njalo nezesikhathi eside.
Ugcizelela ukubaluleka kokwazi ukuthi ikhethini lingubani emaphusheni, njengoba amakhethini angaziwa engathwali ngaphakathi kwawo noma yimiphi imiphumela engokwengqondo noma incazelo ethile yomphuphi.
Ngokwezincazelo, amakhethini alenga eminyango akhombisa amazinga okukhathazeka nokuhlupheka, ngakho lapho ikhethini lilikhulu futhi lisinda, kukhulu ukukhathazeka elikuthwalayo ngokufanayo.
Kuyaphawuleka ukuthi amakhethini amancane amancane abonisa ukukhathazeka nezinkinga zesisindo esincane nokubaluleka.
Nokho, u-Ibn Sirin uyaqhubeka ethi izinkathazo ezihlobene nale mibono yamaphupho ziza nesici sokuphepha, okusho ukuthi ngeke ziphumele ekulimaleni okuphathekayo kulowo ophuphayo.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ikhethini ephusheni liwuphawu lokuphepha nokuvikelwa kubantu abazizwa besaba noma bebalekela okuthile empeleni.
Ukulimaza amakhethini abanye abantu emaphusheni, ikakhulukazi uma umphuphi eyazi umnikazi wekhethini, kubhekwa njengokwephulwa okungokomfanekiso kobumfihlo nodumo lwalowo muntu.
Ukuhunyushwa kokubona amakhethini nguSheikh Nabulsi
Ekuchazeni amaphupho, amakhethini anezincazelo eziningi eziveza izincazelo zokuvikela nobumfihlo.
Isibonelo, ukuphupha amakhethini kungase kubonise isifiso sokuzivikela kanye nobumfihlo phakathi kwabantu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubuhlobo bomshado, lapho befanekisela ukunakekelwa nokugcina ubumfihlo, noma phakathi kwabangane, ukugcina izimfihlo.
Kumuntu ongashadile, ukubona ikhethini kungase kusho ukushada nomuntu onikeza ukusekelwa nesivikelo.
Ukuphupha amakhethini ezindaweni ezingafanele kungabonisa imizwa engemihle njengokudabuka nokukhathazeka, kodwa lokhu kubuye kube nezindaba ezinhle zesikhathi esizayo.
Nakuba, amakhethini alula angase afanekisele izinto ezinesisindo esincane emphefumulweni, uma kuqhathaniswa namakhethini asindayo namakhulu angase abonise imithwalo emikhulu.
Amakhethini awela phansi noma ukuwaklebhula emaphusheni abonisa ukukhululeka kokukhathazeka nokunyamalala kokudabuka, kuyilapho ukuba khona kwamakhethini amaningi kanye nobuningi bemihlobiso yabo kungase kubonise izinkinga nezinkinga empeleni.
Ukuphakamisa amakhethini nakho kusikisela ukudalula izinto ebezifihliwe noma ezifihliwe.
Ukuthenga nokufaka amakhethini ephusheni
Ezweni lamaphupho, amakhethini aphethe izincazelo eziningi ezahlukene ezihluka kuye ngesimo noma ukusetshenziswa kwazo.
Uma umuntu ephupha ukuthenga amakhethini amasha, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuthi ungaphansi kwengcindezi yezezimali noma isikweletu.
Ngokuqondene nokushintsha amakhethini ngaphakathi kwendlu, kungabonisa ukukhathazeka okuvuselelwe kanye nemithwalo yemfanelo ekuphileni komuntu ngamunye.
Ukuthenga amakhethini eminyango kusikisela ukukhathazeka okuvela ebuhlotsheni noma izinkinga ezihlobene nabesifazane empilweni yakhe, kuyilapho amakhethini efasitela angase afanekisele umuzwa wokubukwa abanye.
Ukufaka amakhethini kubonisa ukwamukela ilungu elisha emndenini, njengomfazi.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuqaqa nokususwa kwamakhethini kubonisa ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi amantombazane ashade emndenini.
Ukunakekela ukuhlanzeka kwamakhethini nokuwageza kubonisa ukuqeda izinkathazo nezinkinga, kuyilapho umphuphi wamakhethini angcolile ebonisa ukuqoqwa kokukhathazeka.
Ukuphupha amakhethini efasitela ngokuvamile, iphupho lingase lithwale inkomba yokulwela ukusekela umndeni, kuyilapho ukubona amakhethini eminyango kungase kubonise izibopho eziwela emahlombe abesifazane bendlu.
Ukuvula amakhethini kungaveza ushintsho nokuguquka kusuka esimweni esisodwa kuya kwesinye.
Ukuba namakhethini ezindaweni ezingajwayelekile kugqamisa ukungezwani noma ukungezwani ebudlelwaneni.
Ukuwa kwayo kubonisa ukuchayeka ekumangaleleni, kuyilapho ukushiswa kwayo kubonisa ukuwela ekuvinjelweni.
Kwabacebile, iphupho lamakhethini lihlotshaniswa nokukhathazeka ngengcebo yabo nokuvikelwa kwayo, kuyilapho kwabampofu libonisa isifiso sokufihla isimo sabo ekubukeni.
Esigulini, ikhethini lingase limelele izifo ezithathelwanayo noma ezinzima, futhi esiboshweni limelela ukuvalelwa wedwa noma ukusebenza kanzima.
Amakhethini ephusheni
Uma insizwa engashadile ibona ukubukeka kwamakhethini anemibala egqamile kanye nemiklamo ekhangayo ephusheni lakhe, lokhu kuyinkomba yokuthi isimo sakhe sizoshintsha sibe ngcono, njengoba sibikezela ngobuningi bezinto ezinhle ezizokwandisa ukuphila kwakhe, kuhlanganise. ukubhanqa nozakwethu ozogcwalisa umhlaba wakhe ngothando nenjabulo, futhi abe umthombo wokulondeka nokuqinisekisa kuye.
Lapho umuntu eqaphela amakhethini amboze iminyango yezindawo zokusebenza noma iminyango yehhovisi ephusheni lakhe, lokhu kubonisa izinselele nezithiyo abhekana nazo emkhakheni wakhe womsebenzi, ngaphezu komzamo omkhulu awenzayo ukuze aziphilise.
Ukubona amakhethini amnyama ephusheni kungase kubonise ubunzima nezinsizi umuntu angase adlule kuzo, okubonisa isikhathi sokudabuka nobuhlungu.
Uma amakhethini ehamba ngobudlova ephusheni, lokhu kubonisa izingozi ezingase zibe khona kanye nezinkinga esikhathini esizayo.
Amakhethini ephusheni angase futhi afanekisele abantu abazungezile umphuphi okungenzeka ukuthi bambambele ububi futhi bafise ukucekela phansi ukuzinza kwakhe kwengqondo nezenhlalo.
Lo mbono ungase futhi ubonise ukukhathazeka nokudideka akutholayo umphuphi, futhi ubonise umzabalazo wakhe wangaphakathi wokuthatha izinqumo eziphusile.
Amakhethini ephusheni kwabesifazane abangashadile
Uma intombazane engashadile ibona amakhethini ephusheni lakhe, lokhu kuyinkomba yokuthi maduzane uzoxhunyaniswa nomlingani wokuphila ofanelekayo ozokwabelana naye ngokuphila kuyo yonke imininingwane nenjabulo, egcwalisa impilo yakhe ngemizwa yenjabulo nokuqinisekiswa.
Lapho amakhethini aluhlaza ebonakala ephusheni lentombazane eyodwa, lokhu kungabhekwa njengenkomba yokufika kwamathuba amahle kuye, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kusezingeni lomuntu siqu noma lezemfundo, elimemezela impumelelo yakhe nokuhlukana kwakhe ezifundweni zakhe.
Ngokuqondene namakhethini aphinki, amemezela isigaba esisha esigcwele injabulo kanye nentuthuko ezicini eziningi zokuphila kwakhe.
Uma umbona ethenga ikhethini elimhlophe, lokhu kubikezela umhlangano wakhe ozayo nozakwethu wokuphila okahle othembisa ikusasa eliqhakazile nokuphila okujabulisayo okwabiwe.
Bheka amakhethini amnyama
Uma umuntu ephupha ebona amakhethini anombala omnyama, lokhu kungase kubonise ukubhekana nezikhathi ezinzima eziletha usizi nezinkinga.
Ukuphupha amakhethini amnyama kuveza imizwa yokukhathazeka nokudabuka, futhi kubikezela izimo ezinzima ezizayo.
Uma la makhethini ebonakala evulekile ephusheni, lokhu kungase kubonise ukwesaba ukudalula izimfihlo ezingase zicasule umphuphi.
Ngokuqondene nephupho lokuthenga amakhethini amnyama, libonisa ukuthola izindaba ezingathandeki, futhi kungase kusho ukulahlekelwa umuntu othandekayo.
Amakhethini ephusheni owesifazane oshadile
Emaphusheni abesifazane abashadile, ukubona amakhethini kungathwala izincazelo ezinhle ezibonisa izici ezibalulekile zokuphila kwabo nekusasa.
Isibonelo, uma owesifazane oshadile ebona amakhethini ephusheni lakhe, lokhu kungase kubonise okulindelwe esikhathini esizayo okugcwele ukuzinza nokuzola kude nezinkinga, ikakhulukazi uma lezi zikhethini zinokubukeka okukhangayo futhi zimhlophe ngombala, njengoba lokhu kungase kubonise ukwanda kobuhle futhi izibusiso empilweni yalo wesifazane nomndeni wakhe.
Kwabesifazane ababhekene nezinselele ezikhethekile, njengobunzima bokubeletha, ukubona amakhethini ahlotshisiwe emaphusheni kungase kubonise umlayezo wethemba nethemba lokuthi izifiso zizofezeka maduze futhi izinto zizoba ngcono.
Kumuntu obona amakhethini aluhlaza ephusheni lakhe, lokhu kungase kubonise izimfanelo ezinhle ezimveza eqinisweni, njengomusa nokulwela ukunamathela ezimisweni zokuziphatha nezinyathelo, ngaphezu komoya wokupha nokusiza abanye.
Ngakho, ukubona amakhethini emaphusheni kuba uphawu lobuhle nethemba elifiswayo ezicini ezihlukahlukene zokuphila kowesifazane oshadile.
Amakhethini ephusheni kwabesifazane abakhulelwe
Emaphusheni abesifazane abakhulelwe, izindwangu nemibala ithwala izincazelo ezikhethekile ezihlobene nobulili bomntwana kanye nekusasa.
Lapho ubona amakhethini ngokubukeka okukhangayo nemibala ekhanyayo, kulindeleke ukuthi owesifazane okhulelwe abe nendodakazi enobuhle obubonisa ubuhle bamakhethini avele ephusheni.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma owesifazane okhulelwe ethenga amakhethini ngemibala emnyama ephusheni lakhe, lokhu kungase kubonise ukufika komntwana wesilisa.
Ukuthenga ikhethini elimhlophe ephusheni lifanekisela ukwamukela intombazane enhle kakhulu.
Ukuhunyushwa kokubona amakhethini ephusheni kumuntu
Ephusheni, amakhethini amahle ensizwa engashadile abonisa ukuvulwa kweminyango yokuphila kanye nezibusiso ezingase zilethe injabulo futhi mhlawumbe umfazi ukuze ahlanganyele ukuphila kwakhe ngothando nokuzinza.
Ukubona amakhethini amboze iminyango yamahhovisi omsebenzi noma iminyango emikhulu ibonisa izithiyo zobuchwepheshe kanye nobunzima umuntu angase adlule kubo, ngaphezu kwezinselele ezidinga imizamo emikhulu yokushintshanisa isinxephezelo sezezimali esingavuzi.
Amakhethini ephusheni angase abe uphawu lwabantu abangalungile abazungezile umphuphi, abafuna ukumlimaza futhi bavimbele indlela yakhe.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, kungase kubonise izinga lokukhathazeka nokungabaza abhekana nakho umphuphi, inkomba yesimo sokuntula ukuzethemba kanye nobunzima ekwenzeni izinqumo ezibalulekile.
Uma amakhethini abonakala ephusheni amnyama, lokhu kubonisa ukufika kwezikhathi ezigcwele izinselele nobunzima, ukuvula indlela yesikhathi sokukhathazeka nosizi empilweni yomphuphi.
Ukuhunyushwa kokubona amakhethini ephusheni kowesifazane ohlukanisile
Lapho owesifazane ohlukanisile ebona emakhethini ephupho ehlobisa igumbi, lezi yizindaba ezinhle zokukhululeka kosizi kanye noshintsho oluya esiteji esigcwele ukuzinza nenjabulo.
Uma ebonakala embonweni edonsa amakhethini endlini yakhe, lokhu kuchazwa njengenhlanhla echichimayo yokuziphilisa ezoza kuye ngezindlela ezisemthethweni.
Ngokuqondene nokubona amakhethini kowesifazane obhekene nemiphumela enzima ngenxa yokuhlukana, kuwukuvuma ngekhanda ekukhanyeni okuseduze kwesiqalo esisha esihlanganisa ithemba nokuvuselela impilo ibe ngcono.
Izincazelo zemibala yamakhethini abomvu namhlophe ephusheni
Imibala yamakhethini avela emaphusheni ifanekisela izincazelo ezihlukene kanye nemiphumela ehluka phakathi kokuhle nokubi Ukuchazwa kwale mibala kuncike esimweni sombala ngokwawo kanye nomongo wephupho.
Isibonelo, amakhethini abomvu emaphusheni angabonisa ukuguquguquka okuthinta umphuphi Uma la makhethini ehleliwe futhi edonsa phansi ngokuthula, futhi umphuphi engekho ebuhlotsheni, lokhu kungase kubonise umshado osondelayo.
Endabeni yabantu abashadile, kungase kubonise ukuba khona kwezinkinga nokukhathazeka okungase kuvele emkhathizwe.
Uma la makhethini enyakaza noma enyakaza, lokhu kubonisa izingozi noma amashwa azayo.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, amakhethini amhlophe avame ukuthwala izincazelo ezinhle, njengoba angabonisa ukuthi indawo ayinazo izinkinga nokukhathazeka, futhi ingase ibonise ukwehla kwenkathi yobunzima nobumnyama, ngemva kwalokho kuvela ithemba nokuhlanzeka.
Lokhu kuhumusha kuncike ikakhulukazi kubantu ababhekene nezinkinga ezinkulu futhi babone amakhethini amhlophe ephusheni Lokhu kungase kube inkomba yezinguquko ezinhle kanye nendlela yesigaba esisha sokuzola nokuthuthuka.
Amakhethini amahle ephusheni
Entombazaneni engashadile, iphupho lakhe lamakhethini abukeka ekhangayo libonisa isikhathi esigcwele imizwa emihle, futhi limemezela ukungena kwakhe ebuhlotsheni obugcwele uthando nenjabulo, ikakhulukazi uma amakhethini avela ngemibala ekhanyayo efana nohlaza noma pink.
Le mibala ephusheni iletha izindaba ezinhle zokuhlangenwe nakho okujabulisayo okungokomzwelo emkhathizwe.
Kuwesifazane oshadile, ukubonakala kwamakhethini ahlotshiswe ngemiklamo yezimbali noma ezimbali emaphusheni akhe kungase kubonise izimpawu zesenzakalo esijabulisayo njengokukhulelwa, futhi uma umyeni wakhe ebonakala esebenza ekufakeni la makhethini, lokhu kungase kubonise indlela yomntwana omusha umndeni ophethe injabulo nenjabulo ekubukekeni kwakhe.
Ngomuntu, ukubona ikhethini elihle ephusheni lakhe ngokuvamile lifanekisela umshado wakhe nowesifazane onobuhle nezimfanelo ezinhle, okubikezela ukuphila komshado okujabulisayo nokuzinzile.
Ikhethini elihle ephusheni lifanekisela amathemba ajabulisayo ngekusasa, impumelelo emkhakheni wobungcweti noma wezemfundo, futhi libonisa isikhathi esigcwele inhlanhla nentuthuko enhle phakathi nenkambo yokuphila.
Ngokuqondene nekhethini lefasitela elimangalisayo, ephusheni lomuntu libhekwa njengesibonakaliso sokuchuma ngokwezinto ezibonakalayo nokuletha izinto ezinhle, okubonisa ithemba ngokuchichimayo nesibusiso empilweni yakhe.
Ukuhunyushwa kwamakhethini abomvu ephusheni
Ukubonakala kwamakhethini abomvu emaphusheni ngokuvamile kuhunyushwa njengenkomba yezinselele noma izenzakalo ezingalindelekile umuntu angase abhekane nazo ohambweni lwakhe lokuphila.
Kuyadingeka ukuba umuntu ahlale eqaphile futhi ekulungele ukubhekana nalezi zithiyo ngokuhlakanipha nangesineke.
Uma la makhethini enyakaza ngenxa yemimoya enamandla noma ebonakala ephusheni njengokungathi anyakaza ngobudlova, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuba khona kwezingxabano noma ukungezwani okungenzeka phakathi kwezihlobo noma ngaphakathi kwendawo yasekhaya.
Lezi zimo zidinga ukubhekwana nazo ngomoya wokuqonda nokukhathalela ukubuyisana.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma la makhethini elenga ngendlela ebonakala ezolile futhi ezinzile, ikakhulukazi ngasefasiteleni noma emnyango, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuthi kungenzeka kube nezenzakalo ezijabulisayo ezifana nokushada komuntu ongashadile.
Lo mbono ungase uphathe izindaba ezinhle kulowo ophuphayo.
Ukuthunga amakhethini ephusheni
Ekuchazeni amaphupho, amakhethini athwala izincazelo eziningi ezingase zibonise izici ezihlukene empilweni yomphuphi.
Amakhethini angase aveze ubumfihlo nokuvikelwa noma aze afihle izimfihlo ezithile ezijulile ngemva kwawo.
Ngezinye izikhathi, lifanekisela imigoqo noma izithiyo ezihlukanisa umuntu ekufinyeleleni imigomo yakhe, noma kungase kubonise isimo sokukhathazeka nezinkinga abhekana nazo.
Lapho amakhethini ebonakala emaphusheni esithombeni esidabukile, lokhu kungase kubhekwe njengesibonakaliso esingalindelekile esinezincazelo ezinhle, nakuba abanye bangase bakuhumushe kabi.
Amakhethini aphukile angase afanekisele ukukhululwa kwezinkathazo kanye neziqalo ezintsha.
Amakhethini nawo awuphawu lokuvikela nokufihla, njengoba ebonisa isifiso sokuvikela ubumfihlo noma ukugcina izimfihlo.
Lolu phawu ludlulela ezicini eziningana zempilo yomuntu ngamunye, okuhlanganisa ubudlelwano bomuntu siqu, lapho lubonisa ukuvikela nokunakekelana phakathi kwabangane noma ozakwethu.
Kumuntu ongashadile obona ikhethini ephusheni lakhe, lokhu kufanekisela kungase kubonise ukusondela komshado kowesifazane obonakala ngokupha nokuphana, futhi oyoba ukusekela nokuvikelwa kwakhe ekuphileni kwakhe.
Lokhu kuhlukahluka kokuhumusha kokubona amakhethini emaphusheni kugqamisa imvelo eyinkimbinkimbi futhi ecebile yezimpawu zephupho ezithwalwa yi-subconscious, njalo exhunywe komongo womuntu siqu kanye nesimo sengqondo somphuphi.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nekhethini ephusheni ngokusho kuka-Al-Osaimi
Ekuchazeni iphupho, ukubonakala kwamakhethini amhlophe ephusheni lentombazane engashadile kunesibonakaliso esihle, esithembisa ubuhlobo nomuntu onemizwa yothando nokwazisa ngaye.
Ukubona amakhethini kowesifazane oshadile kubonisa nezindaba ezinhle zenjabulo nokuzinza ekuphileni kwakhe komshado kanye nobuhlobo bakhe nomndeni wakhe, futhi kungase kube inkomba yokukhulelwa okuseduze.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukubona amakhethini angcolile noma adabukile ephusheni kubonakala njengesibonakaliso esiyisixwayiso, esibonisa izinhloso ezimbi noma isidingo sokusebenza ekuthuthukiseni ubuhlobo phakathi komndeni, ikakhulukazi phakathi kwabashadile.
Kumuntu ogulayo ophupha amakhethini, iphupho lakhe lingabonisa ukululama okuseduze kanye nempilo engcono.
Ngokuqondene nomfundi obona amakhethini ephusheni lakhe, umbono wakhe ungaba inkomba yempumelelo kanye nokwenza kahle emsebenzini wakhe wezemfundo.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nekhethini ephusheni kubantu abasha
Lapho ikhethini elimhlophe livela ephusheni lomuntu, lokhu kubhekwa njengezindaba ezinhle ezibikezela ukufika kwenjabulo nezindaba ezijabulisayo ezizoholela eziphethweni ezijabulisayo empilweni yomphuphi.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukubonakala kwamakhethini amnyama emaphusheni kungase kufanekise izikhathi zezinselele nobunzima umuntu azobhekana nazo, kodwa uyozinqoba ngokuzimisela nangokuzimisela, futhi abuyele ekuphileni kwakhe okuvamile ngokushesha kunalokho akucabangayo.
Uma ubona amakhethini ewela phansi, lokhu kuyisibonakaliso esingase sibonise okuhlangenwe nakho okubuhlungu nosizi oluzonyamalala ngokushesha ngaphandle kokushiya noma yimuphi umthelela obalulekile emphefumulweni womphuphi.
Ngokuqondene nokubona amakhethini ngamanani amakhulu, kuyinkomba yokuchichima kwezimali kanye nenzuzo eyengeziwe eza ngenxa yomzamo womuntu siqu kanye nesifiso sokuvelela.
Okokugcina, iphupho ngokubona amakhethini lingabonisa ubuhlobo bomshado obuzinzile futhi obujabulisayo, lapho uthando nokuzwelana kubusa phakathi kwabashadile.
