Izimpawu zomshado ephusheni Fahd Al-Osaimi
Lapho umuntu ephupha ukuthi upheka irayisi, lokhu kubonisa uphawu lokunamathela ngokomzwelo kumuntu onemizwa yothando kuye, njengoba umphuphi elindele ukuphila okwabiwe okugcwele uthando nenjabulo nalo muntu.
Ephusheni, uma umuntu ezibona ehlaba imvu, lokhu kubonisa ukuhlangana kwakhe nomngane wokuphila omuhle oyoletha ukuzinza ekuphileni kwakhe nenala yezibusiso nobuhle.
Kubantu abasha, ukubona amabhodlela ephusheni kungase kubonise ukuthi umshado wabo ususondele.
Kumantombazane, ukugqoka amasongo egolide noma izindandatho emaphusheni kunencazelo efanayo.
Ukuphupha ubona izinkomishi kusikisela ukuthi umshado uzoba kumuntu onesikhundla esihle sezimali.
Ngokuqondene nentombazane ephupha ukuthi igqoke i-abaya noma i-niqab, lokhu kufanekisela ukuthola kwakhe ubumsulwa nokucasha, nokushada kwakhe nomuntu onezindinganiso ezinhle nokuziphatha okuhle.
Umbono womshado kowesifazane ongashadile
Uma intombazane engashadile iphupha ukuthi ingena emgodini wegolide, lokhu kuthembisa izindaba ezinhle nenjabulo ezayo kuye.
Amaphupho okushada nomuntu othandekayo enhliziyweni yakhe abonisa ukuthi izinsuku ezizayo zingase zilethe izindaba ezijabulisayo mayelana nomshado ongokoqobo kungase kubonise impumelelo nempumelelo ezicini ezihlukahlukene zokuphila kwakhe kanye nokugcwaliseka kwezifiso zakhe azifunayo ukufinyelela, ngisho noma bengahlobene ngokuqondile nomshado.
Uma umkhwenyana ephusheni engumuntu ongaziwa entombazaneni, lokhu kungase kubikezele ukuthi uzothola inzuzo enkulu yezinto ezibonakalayo noma uzuze impumelelo ezifundweni zakhe noma emsebenzini wakhe.
Uma intombazane iphupha ngokushada futhi ingamboni umkhwenyana wayo, futhi isivele ishadile, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuqeda umshado.
Nakuba iphupho lokushada nendoda eshadile libonisa ukuthi intombazane izobhekana nezinselele nezinkinga ezingase zivele endleleni yakhe.
Lolu hlobo lwephupho lungaphinda lubonise ithemba lempumelelo kanye nekhono lokufinyelela imigomo ngenxa yokuhlela okuhle nokubekezela.
Ngamafuphi, leli phupho libonisa isifiso esijulile sentombazane sokushada, eveza amaphupho akhe ahlala njalo kanye nezifiso zalo mgomo.
Kungase kubonise ukuthi uphila esikhathini esihle kakhulu somshado.
Uma ebona ukuthi ushada nensizwa engakuthandi ukubukeka kwakhe noma umuntu athola ukuthi akathandwa, lokhu kubonisa ukunganeliseki ngezici ezithile zokuphila kwakhe, nokukhathazeka kwakhe ngekusasa nemithwalo yemfanelo emisha elilethwayo.
Ukuhunyushwa kokubona umshado ephusheni ngu-Ibn Sirin
Umshado emaphusheni unezincazelo eziningi, njengoba uhlotshaniswa nenhlanhla nokuphila okuchichimayo lapho ubona umshado nentombazane enhle noma indodakazi yomuntu obalulekile.
Lawa maphupho akhombisa ukuthuthuka ezikhundleni nasekuhlonipheni, futhi angase abikezele impumelelo emsebenzini nasekuphileni komuntu siqu.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, umbono womshado uqukethe izincazelo ezihlobene nesimo sezempilo somphuphi, njengoba kungase kubonise ukuwohloka kwempilo noma ukufa okuzayo kwesiguli, kodwa kwezinye izimo, umshado ungase ubonise ukuthuthukiswa nokululama kwesiguli.
Umshado kumuntu ongaziwa ungase uphathe okushiwo ukugula noma ubunzima, ngaphandle uma umphuphi enethemba lokufeza isimo esithile, khona-ke iphupho lingase libonise ukuphumelela kwalesi simo.
Kwabesifazane, umshado ephusheni ungase ufanekisela ukuthola ulwazi olusha noma okuhlangenwe nakho.
Ukushintsha kwezimo kanye nezigaba zokushintsha empilweni kuyizinkomba ezicacile zomshado emaphusheni.
Entombazaneni engashadile, iphupho ngomshado lingase libonise ukuthi umshado wakhe usondela eqinisweni, kanti owesifazane oshadile, iphupho livame ukubonisa okulindelwe ukukhulelwa noma izinguquko ezinhle ebuhlotsheni bakhe bomshado.
Kuyaphawuleka ukuthi ukuhumusha kuyahlukahluka kuye ngokuthi isimo somphuphi kanye nezimo zomuntu siqu, futhi kuyadingeka ukucabangela umongo nezimpawu ezivela ephusheni ukuze ufinyelele ukuqonda okujulile.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nomyeni oshada ephusheni
Ezingxenyeni eziningi zamaphupho, umbono wesifazane womshado womyeni wakhe ungase ubonakale njengophawu olunezincazelo nezincazelo ezihlukahlukene.
Uma ebona ukuthi umyeni wakhe ukhetha omunye umlingani empilweni yakhe, futhi lo mlingani muhle, uyathandeka, futhi unobuntu angakaze ababone ngaphambili, khona-ke lo mbono ungase uphathe izincazelo ezinhle ezihlobene nezimo zezezimali ezithuthukisiwe kanye nokwanda kwezibusiso.
Lo mbono ubonakala ngokuba ummemezeli wezindaba ezinhle ezingase zingaqondwa futhi zigcwaliseke ngokushesha.
Lapho owesifazane efakaza ephusheni lakhe ukuthi umyeni wakhe wakha ubuhlobo bomshado nowesifazane owaziyo empeleni, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuqala kokubambisana okusha noma ukubambisana nomndeni walowo wesifazane, noma kubonisa ukuba khona kwezinzuzo ezivamile phakathi kwabo.
Ukuphupha ukuthi indoda ishada nesinye sezihlobo zomkakhe, njengodadewabo, kungase kufanekisele ukuqinisa ubuhlobo bomndeni nokusebenza ukuze basekele futhi basize lesi sihlobo, futhi kubonisa ubumbano nokubambisana phakathi kwamalungu omndeni.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukubona umyeni eshada nowesifazane ongamukeleki futhi okhangayo ephusheni kuwuphawu lokuthi kungenzeka ukubhekana nobunzima kanye nezithiyo enhlanhleni nokuphila.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, iphupho lomyeni eshada nowesifazane omuhle futhi othambile liletha izindaba ezinhle.
Ngokuqondene nokukhala ephusheni ngenxa yomshado womyeni, uma kungenakho ukuklabalasa kanye nezinkulumo ezicacile zokudabuka, kumemezela izimo ezithuthukisiwe kanye nokukhululeka okuseduze.
Kodwa uma ukukhala kuhambisana nokuklabalasa nokushaya, lokhu kungase kubonise ukubhekana nezenzakalo ezimbi.
Kuzo zonke izimo, ulwazi lukuNkulunkulu uMninimandla onke.
Ukuhunyushwa komfazi oshada ephusheni
Ukuphupha ubona unkosikazi womuntu eshada nomunye.
Lolu hlobo lwephupho lungabonisa izinguquko ezingenzeka empilweni yomphuphi.
Uma umuntu ebona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi ushada umkakhe kwenye indoda, lokhu kungase kubikezele ukuthi uzolahlekelwa amalungelo athile noma ukulahlekelwa ebhizinisini lakhe.
Lokhu kulahlekelwa kuyahlukahluka ekuchazeni kuye ngesimo sokuvuka komphuphi. Uma engumuntu onegunya noma umthengisi, kungase kusho ukulahlekelwa isikhundla noma ibhizinisi ngokulandelana.
Ngokuphambene nalokho, uma iphupho lihlanganisa ukuletha indoda kumfazi noma ukushada kabusha, khona-ke lokhu kuhunyushwa njengenzuzo nempumelelo kumaphrojekthi omphuphi.
Ngokuqondene nombono wowesifazane oshadile oshada ephusheni ngokujwayelekile, uphethe izindaba ezinhle futhi ungase ufanekisela ukuxazululwa kwezingxabano, noma umuntu omusha othatha imithwalo yemfanelo ehlobene nomndeni, njengalapho eshada nomunye womyeni wakhe. izihlobo, okubonisa ukwabelana ngezindima nemithwalo yemfanelo phakathi komkhaya.
Kwezinye izimo, umshado womfazi ephusheni ungase ubonise ukwakheka kobudlelwane obusha noma ukuvuselelwa kothando nokuqonda phakathi komndeni.
Kodwa uma umfazi egula, iphupho lingase lingabi nezincazelo ezinhle, futhi lingase libonise izinkinga nezinselele umndeni ongase ubhekane nazo, ikakhulukazi uma iphupho lihlanganisa izigcawu ezifana nokudansa nokucula.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, umshado womfazi ephusheni ungase ubonise izengezo ezintsha emndenini noma izinguquko ezibalulekile esakhiweni somndeni, njengokukhulelwa noma ukuzalwa kwengane.
Kodwa uma umphuphi enomuzwa womona noma ekhathazekile ephusheni lakhe, lokhu kungase kubonise ukwesaba kwakhe okujulile mayelana nezinguquko zesikhathi esizayo ebuhlotsheni bakhe.
Ukuhunyushwa komshado wezihlobo ephusheni
Ukuhunyushwa emasikweni okuhumusha amaphupho kubonisa izincazelo eziningana zokubona umshado ephusheni, njengoba umshado womuntu nelungu lomndeni eliseduze kubhekwa njengobufakazi bokuthi uthatha ukulawula nobuholi ngaphakathi kohlaka lomndeni.
Lo mbono, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uphathelene nokushada nodadewabo, umama, u-anti, indodakazi, noma udadewabo kadadewabo, uphethe incazelo efanayo evamile yokulawula kanye nesibopho.
Uma intombazane engashadile izibona ishada nomfowabo ephusheni, lokhu kuhunyushwa ngokuthi kusho ukuthi umfowabo uzoyisekela ngezikhathi zokucindezeleka nezimo ezinzima, futhi kungase kubonise inzuzo engayithola emndenini wayo ekulungiseleleni umshado wayo. izindaba.
Ngokuqondene nowesifazane oshadile, lo mbono ungase ufanekisele ubuhle nesibusiso esilindelwe enzalweni yakhe.
Umshado wendoda nomkamfowabo ephusheni ubonisa ukuthatha kwakhe imithwalo yemfanelo yomndeni, futhi mhlawumbe udlala indima yomnakekeli noma umondli lapho umfowabo engekho.
Uma umuntu ebona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi umfowabo ushada nomkakhe, lokhu kuchazwa ngokuthi umzalwane uyothwala umthwalo wokunakekela umndeni lapho engekho.
Ukushada nonina kuchazwa ngokuthi indoda ilungile futhi inomusa kunina, futhi kuwuphawu lokumdinga kakhulu.
Lo mbono ungase futhi ube nezimpawu zezinkinga zomshado nemizwa yokungajabuli kwabanye.
Ukushada nogogo ephusheni kuyinkomba yobuhle obuningi kanye nenhlanhla emizamweni yomphuphi.
Ukushada no-anti ozala ubaba kuveza ukuzwana nokuzwana emndenini, kuyilapho ukushada nomalumekazi ozala uyise kubonisa ukuthi izinkinga zizoxazululeka futhi ukucindezeleka kuzodlula ngokushelela, futhi uNkulunkulu ulazi kangcono iqiniso lakho.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngomshado ngokusho kuka-Al-Nabulsi
Ngokwezincazelo zephupho likaNabulsi, umshado ephusheni uthwala izincazelo ezahlukene ngokusekelwe emininingwaneni yombono.
Isibonelo, uma umuntu ephupha ukuthi ushada nowesifazane ongashadile, omuhle, lokhu kubonisa ukugcwaliseka kwezifiso nempumelelo emizamweni yokuphila.
Nakuba ukushada nentombazane efile ephusheni kufanekisela ukugcwaliseka kokuthile okubonakala kungenakwenzeka.
Uma indoda engashadile ibona ephusheni layo ukuthi ishada nodadewabo, lo mbono umemezela uhambo noma impumelelo enkulu, futhi ungase ubonise ukubambisana okunezithelo phakathi kwabo.
Uma indoda ibona ukuthi umkayo useshade nenye indoda, lokhu kuyinkomba yokukhula kwempilo nokwenyuka kwemali.
Uma ibona ukuthi ishade noyise noma uyise, lokhu kubonisa ukuthola ifa noma izinzuzo ngaphandle komzamo.
Entombazaneni engashadile, uma ephupha ukuthi ushade nomuntu ongaziwa kuye, lokhu kubonisa ukugcwaliseka kwamaphupho nempumelelo ekuphileni.
Nokho, uma ebona ukuthi ushada nesithandwa sakhe, lokho kungase kubonise ukuthi ngeke aphumelele ekushadeni naso noma kuzoba nezithiyo ezinganqotshwa.
U-Al-Nabulsi uzwakalisa umbono womshado emaphusheni njengophawu lokunakekela kukaNkulunkulu, ukuphana, kanye nezinga lomusa ezincekwini Zakhe, kanye nokuba inkomba yezinguquko ezinqunyelwe endleleni yokuphila komuntu kanye nezimfihlo zekusasa. uyabamba.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngomshado kumuntu ongashadile ephusheni
Emaphusheni, uma indoda engashadile izibona ingena emshadweni nowesifazane engakaze amazi, futhi iphethe isibonakaliso sokukhathazeka nokungezwani kulobu buhlobo, lokhu kubonisa iqiniso lapho ezophoqeleka khona ukuba amukele imithwalo yemfanelo noma enze izinqumo. ukuthi angakwamukeli.
Ngokuphambene nalokho, uma imizwa ehambisana nomshado iyinjabulo nokuqinisekiswa, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuthi izifiso zomphuphi zizofezeka nokuthi uzothola umsebenzi noma umsebenzi ayewufisa.
Iphupho lomshado kumuntu ongashadile limelela ukuguqulwa okukhulu kusuka esimweni esisodwa kuya kwesinye. Lapho eshiya khona ukuzihlukanisa kwakhe futhi eqala uhambo lokuphila okwabelwana ngalo nokuxhumana ngokomzwelo.
Lo mbono futhi umemezela intuthuko enhle ezingeni lochwepheshe, njengoba ophuphayo ezothola amathuba ahambisana namaphupho nezifiso zakhe.
Umshado ephusheni uletha izindaba ezinhle kanye nezinguquko ezifiselekayo eziholela ekunqobeni ukufutheka okudlule kanye nenqubekela phambili ekufezeni izifiso zakho.
Ngakho-ke, noma ubani ozibona ephusheni elinjalo kufanele alungiselele ukwamukela isigaba esisha sokuphila esithembisa ubuhle nentuthuko.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nowesifazane ongashadile oshada nomuntu ongaziwa
Lapho intombazane engashadile iphupha ukuthi ishada nendoda engaziwa, lokhu kubhekwa njengenkomba yokuthola izindaba eziphumelelayo nezithembisayo esikhathini esiseduze, okuyizindaba ezinhle zokufeza imigomo nezifiso ezihlale zifuna.
Kungase futhi kubhekwe njengophawu lokuthi uzothola ingcebo noma impumelelo enkulu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ufunda noma emsebenzini.
Lolu hlobo lwephupho luqinisekisa umphefumulo wentombazane ukuthi ukuhlinzekwa kwaphezulu kukhona empilweni yakhe, njalo kuvikela futhi kuyinakekela.
Iphupho liza njengophawu lokuthi uzonqoba izinselele nezinkinga angase abhekane nazo, eqinisekisa ukuthi uzofinyelela imigomo yakhe ngempumelelo nangokuthula, ngenani elincane lezithiyo nobunzima.
Ukuphupha ushada nomuntu intombazane engamazi ngenkathi ingashadile nakho kuthathwa njengophawu lokusondela ekufezeni isifiso noma ukungena esigabeni esisha esigcwele izinto ezinhle.
Kodwa-ke, leli phupho lingase futhi lihlanganise ukubonakaliswa kokwesaba okufihliwe, ukukhathazeka ngekusasa, nokungazethembi mayelana nokungaziwa, okudinga ukucatshangelwa kokucabanga ngokweqile kanye nokungezwani okungase kuthinte kabi inhlalakahle jikelele yentombazane.
Kulo mongo, iphupho libonisa imizwa yokulinda nokulangazelela ukuhlangana “neqhawe eliphelele” intombazane eliphuphayo futhi elithembayo ekujuleni kwenhliziyo yayo, ngayo yonke ilukuluku nothando lokubona ukuthi ikusasa limphatheleni okumangazayo. .
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nowesifazane ongashadile oshada noyise
Uma intombazane engashadile ibona ephusheni layo ukuthi ishada noyise, kukhona labo ababona leli phupho njengophawu oluthembisayo olubonisa ukuthi intombazane izosheshe ishade nendoda ephethe amathemba namaphupho ayo.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abanye bahumusha leli phupho njengokubonakaliswa kokuziphatha kwentombazane okungase kumcasule uyise, okuholela ekubeni amthukuthelele.
Ukuchazwa kwaleli phupho kuncike kakhulu esimweni sobudlelwane phakathi kwentombazane noyise. Uma ubuhlobo bugcwele inhlonipho nokulalela, iphupho libhekwa njengokubonakaliswa kwalokhu kulalela, futhi ngokuphambene nalokho uma ubuhlobo buqukethe ukuhlubuka nokungahloniphi.
Ukushada noyise ephusheni kufanekisela isifiso sokusondela kuyise futhi ube nokunamathela okukhulu kuye, ngaphezu kokulwela ukuthola umlingani wokuphila onezimfanelo ezifana nekayise.
Iphupho, lilonke, libhekwa njengomyalezo omuhle ohambisa izindaba ezinhle nezindaba ezinhle kumphuphi.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngowesifazane oshadile oshada nomuntu oshonile ephusheni
Kwamanye amaphupho, owesifazane oshadile angase azithole esekhetha umngane womshado kwelinye izwe, ikakhulukazi uma lo mlingani engumuntu oshonile futhi owayengamazi ngaphambili.
Lo mbono ungase ubonise, ngokwezincazelo, ukubhekana nezinselele ezinzima zezezimali ezingase ziholele ekuncipheni kwezinsiza zomkhaya noma umuzwa wobumpofu.
Uma umuntu ehlangene emshadweni nomuntu oshonile ephusheni, izikhathi zokuphela ezisondelayo zingaboniswa lapha, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi lokho kuwukufa noma ukugula okukhulu.
Uma umshado ungowomlingani oshonile, lokhu kungase kubonise ukwesaba kwangaphakathi ukulahlekelwa noma ukulahlekelwa othandekayo, ngaphezu kwe-nostalgia evuselelwe kanye nesifiso sokuhlangana kabusha.
Ukuphupha ushada nomlingani nokufa kwakhe ngemva komshado mhlawumbe kubonisa ukwesaba izinguquko ezibuhlungu zokuphila kanye neziphetho ezinzima ezigabeni ezahlukene.
Uma umyeni ephusheni engumuntu owaziwayo, lokhu kungase kumemezele ubuhle, izibusiso, namandla okunqoba ubunzima.
Nakuba uma umuntu engaziwa, umbono ungase ubonise isixwayiso senhlekelele noma izenzakalo ezibuhlungu.
Ngokwezincazelo zika-Al-Nabulsi, ukubona umuntu oshonile njengomyeni ephusheni kungase kubonise ukuhlukana okungalungile nokuguqulwa okungase kuthinte ikusasa lowesifazane mayelana nemali nomndeni, okuletha izikhathi zokulahlekelwa nokungajabuli.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokushada nendoda emnyama yowesifazane ongashadile
Ochwepheshe bokuhumusha amaphupho bakholelwa ukuthi iphupho lentombazane engashadile lokushada nomuntu onebala elimnyama libonisa ukuthi kungenzeka yini ubuhlobo nomuntu ophila naye obonakala ngokuhlonishwa nokuziphatha okuphakeme, futhi uphethe izimfanelo eziningi ezinhle ezifana nokwethembeka kanye nenkolo.
Leli phupho lingase futhi limemezele ubuhle nempumelelo ezicini ezihlukahlukene zokuphila kwentombazane, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ngokomsebenzi noma ngokomzwelo.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, kukholelwa ukuthi ukubona umuntu eshada ephusheni enesikhumba esimnyama kuhlanganisa isethi yezimfanelo ezinhle kumuntu ophuphayo, njengesihe, ubuhle, nekhono lakhe lokupha nokuphatha abanye ngomusa nokuphana.
