Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngegolide kowesifazane oshadile, u-Wassim Youssef
Lapho owesifazane oshadile ephupha ukubona igolide, kubonisa isikhathi sokuchuma nenjabulo emkhathizwe. Kuye, ukuphupha ngegolide kuyizindaba ezinhle nenala yezibusiso ezizofika empilweni yakhe maduze.
Uma owesifazane oshadile ebona igolide ephusheni, kungase kube ubufakazi bokuthi ikusasa limgcinele izindaba ezinhle eziphathelene nomndeni wakhe nenzalo yakhe, okuyothuthukisa injabulo nokwaneliseka kwakhe ekuphileni komkhaya wakhe.
Ukubona igolide ephusheni lowesifazane oshadile kuwuphawu lokusekelwa okukhulu nokuqhubekayo akuthola kumyeni wakhe nomndeni wakhe, okumenza azizwe evikelekile futhi ezinzile ekuphileni kwakhe.
Lo mbono uqukethe nezincazelo zokuvelela nempumelelo emikhakheni eminingi yempilo, ikakhulukazi lezo ezibalulekile kowesifazane oshadile, njengezimpumelelo zesayensi noma intuthuko endleleni ethile ayithakaselayo.
Ngamafuphi, ukubona igolide ephusheni lowesifazane oshadile kungabhekwa njengesibonakaliso esihle esithembisa izikhathi zakhe ezigcwele izinto ezinhle, injabulo yomndeni, nokusekelwa okuqhubekayo okuqinisa ukuzimisela kwakhe ukufeza imigomo yakhe.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngegolide kowesifazane oshadile ngu-Ibn Sirin
Lapho owesifazane oshadile ephupha ngegolide, iphupho libonisa izinga lokuziphatha kwezingane zakhe kanye nokuma kwabo okuhle phakathi kwabantu. Lo mbono umemezela ikusasa eligcwele ithemba nokukhanya kubo.
Ukubonakala komuntu oshonile ephusheni emnika igolide kungase kubonise izinzuzo zezezimali ezivela efeni elihlanzekile nelisemthethweni.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma owesifazane ezizwa edabukile ngenkathi ebona igolide ephusheni, lokhu kungase kumemezele ukuthi uzobhekana nobunzima obukhulu nezinselele ezizovivinya amandla nokubekezela kwakhe.
Kodwa, ngokujwayelekile, ukubonakala kwegolide emaphusheni wesifazane oshadile kungabonisa ukuphuma nokwenza lula izinto ezicini ezihlukahlukene zokuphila, okukhomba isikhathi sokulindela okuhle nokududuza.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nesipho segolide sowesifazane oshadile
Ukubona igolide ephusheni lowesifazane oshadile kubonisa izincazelo eziningi, ezingase zihluke kuye ngemininingwane yephupho. Lapho lona wesifazane ebona umyeni wakhe emnika igolide, lokhu kuveza intuthuko enhle ebuhlotsheni babo, njengoba ukungezwani kwangaphambili kuye kwanqotshwa futhi ukuxhumana phakathi kwabo kuye kwaba ngcono.
Uma uMahdi enguyise, lokhu kubonisa izinga lokusekela nothando analo ngaye, okubonisa isifiso sakhe sokumbona ejabule futhi efinyelela imigomo yakhe.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma owesifazane ethola ukuthi igolide alithole ephusheni liwumgunyathi, lokhu kumbiza ukuze ahlole izinhloso zabantu abaseduze kwakhe, ikakhulukazi labo ababonakala benobungane kodwa ngaphakathi kungenjalo.
Futhi, ukuthola indandatho yegolide kuveza ubumsulwa benhloso yowesifazane kanye nothando lwabantu ngaye ngenxa yobuqotho bemizwa yakhe nomusa wenhliziyo yakhe.
Uma isipho siyinkunzi yegolide, lokhu kumemezela izindaba ezijabulisayo ezivela kumngane oseduze. Lawa maphupho anikeza izimpawu eziningi nezincazelo ezihlobene nesimo somzwelo nesenhlalo sowesifazane oshadile.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nendandatho yegolide yowesifazane oshadile
Uma owesifazane oshadile ebona indandatho yegolide ephusheni lakhe, lokhu kufanekisela ukuzinza nokunethezeka empilweni yakhe yomshado.
Lapho owesifazane oshadile ephupha ukuthi ushintsha indandatho yakhe yomshado yegolide entsha, lokhu kuyinkomba yokuthi angase adlulele esigabeni esisha ekuphileni kwakhe kothando nomunye umlingani ofanelekayo.
Ukulahlekelwa indandatho yegolide ephusheni lowesifazane oshadile kungase kuthwale isixwayiso mayelana nenkinga enkulu yezempilo enye yenzalo yakhe ingase ibhekane nayo.
Uma owesifazane oshadile ethola indandatho yakhe yegolide ngemva kokulahlekelwa yiyo ephusheni lakhe, lokhu kumemezela ukuthi uzonqoba inkinga encane yezomnotho emkhathizwe.
Ukufaka indandatho yegolide esandleni sobunxele sowesifazane oshadile ngesikhathi sephupho lakhe kuyinkomba yokuthi enye yamadodakazi akhe izoshada maduze.
Umgexo wegolide ephusheni owesifazane oshadile
Amaphupho anezincazelo nezincazelo ezihlukile kumuntu nomuntu, futhi empilweni yowesifazane oshadile, la maphupho angase aphathe izibikezelo zobuhle nethemba.
Uma ebona umyeni wakhe emnika isipho somgexo wegolide, lokhu kungase kubonise izinga lothando nokuzibophezela okujulile anakho ngaye.
Uma ezithola egqoke lo mgexo ephusheni, lokhu kungase kube uphawu lokuthi usezozuza ingcebo noma imali eqinisweni.
Ukubona umgexo wegolide ngokujwayelekile kungafanekisela ukuthola izindaba ezijabulisayo maduzane iphupho elinjalo lingase libe uphawu lokuqala kwesigaba esisha nesithelayo empilweni yakhe, njengokusungula iphrojekthi yomuntu siqu lapho ezofaka khona umzamo omkhulu futhi. okulindeleke ukuthi imlethele insada yempumelelo.
Ukuthola igolide ephusheni owesifazane oshadile
Lapho owesifazane oshadile ephupha ukuthi uthola igolide, lezi yizindaba ezinhle zokuthi imithandazo yakhe iphenduliwe nokuthi usezobhekana nezimanga ezijabulisayo.
Uma ebona ukuthi usebutholile ubucwebe begolide abebulahlekele, lokhu kuwuphawu lokufika kwezindaba ezizomjabulisa futhi zimduduze. Ukuthola igolide ephusheni owesifazane oshadile ubikezela ukuthi uzothola isikhundla esivelele kanye nethonya elikhulu ngemva kwesikhathi somzamo nokusebenza kanzima.
Lolu hlobo lwephupho luphinde lubhekise emkhathizwe omusha wamathuba amahle azovela empilweni yakhe futhi enze ngcono kakhulu izimo zakhe. Ngokuvamile, le mibono ibonisa okulindelwe ekuphileni okugcwele ukuchuma nokulondeka ngokwezimali.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana necici legolide lowesifazane oshadile
Uma owesifazane oshadile ephupha ukuthi uthola icici legolide, kungase kubhekwe njengezindaba ezinhle ukuthi inkathi ezayo ingase imlethele izindaba ezinhle zomntwana womfana.
Ukubona icici legolide ephusheni lowesifazane oshadile kungase kube inkomba yezikhathi ezijabulisayo nezikhethekile ahlala nomyeni wakhe.
Uma ezibona egqoke icici legolide ephusheni, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuthi uphokophele ekuqaliseni iphrojekthi entsha kanye nempumelelo yayo elindelekile.
Uma icici liwa endlebeni yowesifazane oshadile ephusheni, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuthi uzolahlekelwa izinto ezibonakalayo noma zokuziphatha esikhathini esizayo esiseduze.
Uma ezwa isisindo secici endlebeni yakhe kuze kube yilapho kumbangela ubuhlungu ephusheni, lokhu kubonisa umzabalazo wakhe nokubhekana nobunzima obungase buvimbele ukufezwa kwemigomo yakhe.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana namasongo egolide kuwesifazane oshadile
Lapho owesifazane ofanelekayo ephupha ukuthi ubona amasongo egolide, lokhu kungase kube inkomba yobuhle nesibusiso esimlindile esikhathini esizayo. Ngakho, iphupho limemezela impumelelo nenqubekela phambili azoyibona empilweni yakhe.
Uma lona wesifazane ephusheni ephethe amasongo ezandleni zakhe, lokhu kungase kubonise isibonakaliso esihle esivela kuNkulunkulu sokuthi uzoba nomntwana omusha, futhi lo mntwana angase abe nomthelela omkhulu ekuphileni kwakhe, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungowesilisa noma owesifazane.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukubona amasongo egolide kubonisa ukuchuma kwezinto ezibonakalayo kanye nezezimali kowesifazane oshadile ombona ephusheni lakhe, okuletha injabulo yakhe nokugcina ukukhathazeka kude.
Uma umbono umbona enikeza umyeni wakhe amasongo egolide, lokhu kungase kufanekisele ukwethembeka nokulalela anakho kumyeni wakhe nokunakekela okuhle akunikeza izingane zakhe.
Uma indoda kuyiyo epha umkayo amasongo, lokhu kungase kusho ukwanda kwenzalo nokwanda komkhaya onabantwana.
Kodwa-ke, uma amasongo ephukile noma engekho ephusheni, lokhu kungase kubonise izinselele zezezimali noma izinkinga ezingokwengqondo owesifazane angase abhekane nazo.
Ukukhumula amasongo egolide ephusheni kungase kubonise ukudalula izimfihlo noma ukubhekana nedumela elingathandeki phakathi kwabantu.
Okokugcina, uma owesifazane oshadile elahlekelwa amasongo akhe egolide ephusheni, lokhu kungase kubonise ukulahlekelwa ngokwezimali noma ukulahlekelwa umthombo obalulekile wokuziphilisa ekuphileni kwakhe.
Igolide ephusheni
Uma umuntu ebona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi ugqoke igolide, lokhu kubonisa umshado wakhe wesikhathi esizayo nowesifazane onokuziphatha okuhle, kodwa uvela emndenini onezinkinga ezithile, okudinga ukuqapha nokuqapha kuye.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma umphuphi ebona ingxube yegolide ephusheni lakhe, lokhu kubikezela ukuthi uzobhekana nokungabi nabulungisa kothile onethonya kuye, futhi kumelwe athandaze kuNkulunkulu ukuba asuse umonakalo nokukhathazeka.
Ukubuka ukuncibilika kwegolide ephusheni kubonisa isithombe esibi somuntu phakathi kwabantu, okudinga ukuba enze umzamo wokuthuthukisa lesi sithombe futhi abhekane nabanye ngokuqapha. Kodwa-ke, uma enikeza uhlamvu lwegolide ephusheni lakhe kumuntu angamazi, lokhu kumemezela inqubekelaphambili ebonakalayo empilweni yakhe yobungcweti maduze, okuzoholela ekuthuthukisweni kwesimo sakhe sezezimali.
Izinhlamvu zemali zegolide ephusheni ziwuphawu lwesimo esiphakeme somphuphi nesimo phakathi kwabantu, ngaphezu kobufakazi bothando lwabantu nokwazisa ngaye.
Ngokuqondene nombono wokuthenga igolide ephusheni, kubonisa ukuthi umphuphi wayesezowela enkingeni enkulu, kodwa ngenxa kaNkulunkulu, lokhu kuhlupheka kwasuswa kuye, okufanele ukubonga nokubonga ngakho.
Igolide ephusheni lika-Imam Sadiq
U-Imam Al-Sadiq uhumusha amaphupho egolide njengokubonisa inqubekelaphambili ebalulekile emkhakheni womsebenzi womphuphi, njengoba ukubona igolide kuwuphawu lokukhushulwa komsebenzi kanye nempumelelo ekhaliphile elindele umuntu.
Nakuba umbono wokudla igolide ukhombisa ukuhlela okuphusile kwezezimali nokonga ikusasa lezingane. Ukugqoka igolide eliningi ephusheni kunencazelo yesixwayiso sezinkinga ezizayo okufanele umuntu aziqaphele.
Kubantu abashadile, ukubona igolide liphenduka isiliva kunencazelo yokuzizwa uyisidina ebudlelwaneni bomshado nokucabanga ngamathuba okuhlukana. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma umuntu ebona umkakhe egqoke igolide, lokhu kubikezela ukuthuthuka kwesimo sabo sezimali kanye nokufika kokuziphilisa nengcebo esikhathini esizayo esiseduze.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngegolide
Ukubona umgexo wegolide ephusheni kubonisa ukuthola izindaba ezinhle kanye nempumelelo yezezimali kulowo ophuphayo.
Lapho umuntu ezibona ebeka umgexo entanyeni yakhe ephusheni, kusho ukuthi uzungezwe imithwalo yemfanelo eminingi kanye nezibopho.
Uma insizwa engashadile izibona ihlotshiswe ngomgexo wegolide ephusheni layo, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi usuku lwakhe lomshado lusondela, kodwa kungase kungabi yisinqumo esihle kuye.
Ukubona umgexo wegolide ephusheni nokuzizwa ungakhululekile ngawo kubonisa ukubhekana nezinkinga zezezimali nokuqongelela izikweletu.
Ukuphupha umyeni edayisela umkakhe umgexo wegolide kubikezela umshado welungu lomndeni esikhathini esizayo esiseduze.
Owesifazane oshadile ogqoke umgexo wegolide ephusheni lakhe ubonisa amandla obudlelwane nothando phakathi kwakhe nomyeni wakhe futhi kubonisa ukuzinza kwabo ngokomzwelo.
Ukweba igolide ephusheni
Lapho umuntu ephupha ukuthi igolide lintshontshiwe kuye, ngokuvamile lokhu kubhekwa njengenkomba yokuthi uzobhekana nobunzima besikhathi esizayo futhi angase abe nenkinga enkulu yempilo engase ithinte ukuzinza kokuphila kwakhe. Lezi zincazelo zamaphupho zinezincazelo eziyisixwayiso kumuntu othintekayo.
Uma umphuphi ebona ukuthi indlu yakhe igetshengwa futhi akanamandla okuvimbela isela ekuthatheni impahla yakhe, lokhu kungase kubonise ukulahlekelwa ngumuntu oseduze noma izimo ezidabukisayo ezizoqeda ikhaya lakhe. Le mibono ngokuvamile igcwele izexwayiso ezingokomzwelo nezingokwengqondo zomuntu ngamunye.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana neketanga legolide lowesifazane okhulelwe
Lapho owesifazane okhulelwe ephupha ukuthi ugqoke umgexo wegolide, lokhu kuhunyushwa uthando olujulile lomyeni wakhe ngaye kanye nokugxila kwakhe ekunakeni nothando kubantu abaseduze kwakhe.
Uma ephupha ukuthenga umgexo wegolide, lokhu kuyinkomba yempumelelo kanye nezimfanelo ezinhle zezingane zakhe.
Ukuthenga umgexo wesiliva ephusheni kubonisa ukukhuliswa okuhle kwamadodakazi akhe kanye nekusasa labo eliqhakazile.
Ukubona umgexo uzulazula usuka esiliva uye egolideni kubhekwa njengezindaba ezinhle zokukhulelwa okuseduze.
Uma ebona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi umyeni wakhe uboshwe ngomgexo wegolide, lokhu kubonisa ukungezwani nokukhathazeka kwakhe ngenxa yezinkinga zobuchwepheshe abhekana nazo.
Ukuhunyushwa kokubona amasongo egolide ephusheni lowesifazane oshadile ngokusho kuka-Al-Nabulsi
Umhlaziyi u-Al-Nabulsi uthe ukubonakala kwamasongo egolide ephusheni lowesifazane oshadile kuyizindaba ezinhle, njengoba kubonisa ukuthi maduze uzothola izibusiso nezinzuzo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yena noma umlingani wakhe wokuphila.
Kowesifazane oshadile, ukubona amasongo egolide ephusheni kubonisa okulindelwe okujabulisayo, njengokuhlangana kwakhe nenzalo enhle noma ukuthuthukiswa okuphawulekayo esimweni sakhe sezezimali esikhathini esizayo esiseduze.
Uma owesifazane oshadile ekhulelwe futhi ebona ephusheni ukuthi unamasongo egolide, lokhu kuyisibonakaliso esihle esivela kuNkulunkulu sokuthi uzobusiswa ngomntwana onempilo, uNkulunkulu ethanda.
Endabeni yokubona amasongo egolide ephusheni, u-Al-Nabulsi uthe lokhu kukhombisa ithemba ngobuhle obuzayo kumuntu ophuphayo, ememezela impumelelo nokuchuma okuzovela empilweni yakhe, okuzoletha injabulo nenhlalakahle.
Igolide ephusheni ngendoda
Lapho umuntu ebona igolide ephusheni lakhe, lokhu kungase kubonise okuhlangenwe nakho okunzima kwezezimali adlula kukho, kodwa kunezibonakaliso emkhathizwe ezihambisana nokuthuthuka okuphawulekayo esimweni sakhe sezezimali. Lo mbono, uma uhambisana nomuzwa wenjabulo, ungase ube inkomba yokungathí sina nokukhuthala okubonakala kumphuphi, umthembisa izindaba ezinhle ezingeni lochwepheshe noma lezenhlalakahle maduze.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma indoda ibonakala ithenga igolide ephusheni, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuthi maduzane uzoshada nowesifazane onobuhle futhi okholwayo.
Ngokuqondene nokubona igolide njengophawu lwegunya, ukuligqoka ephusheni kungase kubonise imingcele nokwesaba umphuphi abhekana nakho ekuphileni kwakhe kwangempela.
