U-Ibn Sirin uphuphe ngothile engicela umshado
Emaphusheni, ukuhlanganyela kuwuphawu lwezindaba ezinhle kanye nokuqala kwesigaba esisha esigcwele ithemba. Lapho umuntu ebona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi uthembisene nomuntu amaziyo, lokhu kungabonisa ukugcwaliseka okuseduze kwesifiso noma ukuthola izindaba ezijabulisayo.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma ingoduso ephusheni ingumuntu wesimo, njengothisha noma umphathi emsebenzini, lokhu kubonisa intuthuko nempumelelo ekutadisheni noma ekuphileni kochwepheshe.
Kodwa-ke, uma intombazane ibona ukuthi ithembisa umshado nomunye umuntu ngaphandle komlingani wayo wamanje, lokhu kungase kube uphawu lokunganeliseki noma ukufuna injabulo kwenye indawo. Lokhu akusho ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthi ushintsho lubi, kodwa kunalokho kungase kube isimemo sokucabanga ngobudlelwano bamanje nokuzibophezela.
Ukuhlanganyela ephusheni kungase futhi kubonise isifiso sokuthola uthando nokuvikeleka, ikakhulukazi uma umuntu ehlangabezana nesikhathi somzwangedwa noma efuna umlingani. Iphupho mayelana nokuzibandakanya nesithandwa liphakamisa ukunqoba izithiyo nokufinyelela ukuzinza ngokomzwelo. Ngokuqondene nokuthembisana umshado nomuntu ongamazi, kubikezela ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukuvuselela kanye nokuqala kobudlelwane obusha.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma ukuhlanganyela ephusheni kuthwala imizwa engemihle noma kuholela ekuhlukaneni, kungase kube inkomba yezinqumo eziyingozi okufanele zenziwe noma izinkinga ezidinga ukuxazululwa.
Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi amaphupho abonisa imizwa yethu, ukwesaba kanye nezifiso zethu. Ukuzibandakanya ephusheni, ezimweni eziningi, kubonisa ukulangazelela injabulo, ithemba, nokuthuthela esigabeni esisha esigcwele uthando nempumelelo. Wonke amaphupho ayisimemo sokucabanga ngezimpilo zethu kanye nalokho esifuna ukukuzuza, kungaba emsebenzini, ukufunda, noma ubudlelwano bomuntu siqu.
Incazelo yokuzibandakanya ephusheni lentombazane eyodwa
Emaphusheni, indawo yentombazane engashadile eshada nomuntu owaziwayo inezincazelo ezinhle, njengoba ibikezela ukufika kwezindaba ezijabulisayo ezihlobene nalowo muntu noma ezihlobene naye ngokuqondile. Lo mbono ubonisa nokuthi intombazane ingene esigabeni esibalulekile sempilo yayo esibonakala ngokuzinza, futhi sibonisa ukuxhumana kwayo okujulile nezimiso ezinjengobuqotho nodumo. Iphinde izwakalise ukuthambekela kwakhe ekuzifezeni kanye nokulwela ukufinyelela emigomweni ngokuzimisela nangokuphikelela.
Iphupho lomshado wentombazane engashadile lifanekisela isigaba sokuvuthwa nokulungiselela ikusasa, lapho ehlala khona izikhathi ezinhle kakhulu zobusha ngokuqaphela nangokuzibophezela, kuyilapho elondoloza izindinganiso nesithunzi sakhe. Lokhu kungaphezu kokwandisa ama-horizons akhe okuqonda kanye nokuthola ukuhlonishwa nokuthakaselwa yilabo abaseduze kwakhe ngenxa yezimpumelelo zakhe nokuziphatha okuqondile.
Incazelo yokubona umuntu engimaziyo engicela umshado ephusheni owesifazane oshadile
Izincazelo ezihlobene nokubona ukuhlanganyela emaphusheni abesifazane abashadile kubonisa izincazelo ezihlukahlukene nezincazelo. Isibonelo, uma owesifazane oshadile ebona ukuthi othile owaziwa kuye ucela isandla sakhe ephusheni, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuthi ubhekene nenkathi yokukhathazeka nokudabuka. Ngenkathi ebona iqembu lokuzibandakanya ngaphandle komlingani ocacile ephusheni libonisa umuzwa womphuphi wokuntuleka kwemizwelo kanye nesidingo esijulile sothando nokunakekelwa okwengeziwe okuvela kumlingani wakhe wokuphila kanye nabantu abasondelene naye.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma ebona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi usephinde wathembisa umshado nomyeni wakhe, lezi yizindaba ezinhle zezikhathi ezigcwele uthando nokuzwana, okubikezela ukuzinza kobudlelwane bomshado. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lapho ebona umshado ovela kumfokazi ongamazi owesifazane, kungase kubonise ukubukeka kwabantu abasha abangabangela izinkinga ezithile noma ukuphazamiseka empilweni yakhe.
Uma ebona ukuthi umkhohlisi ungumuntu oshonile owaziwa nguye, lo mbono ungase ubonise ukulangazelela komphuphi ngalowo muntu. Uma umufi ebonakala ejabule futhi emamatheka, lokhu kungase kube inkomba yesimo esihle somufi, kuyilapho ebonakala enobuso obuhwaqabele noma obudangele kubonisa isidingo somphefumulo semithandazo nokupha izipho. Ukubona indodana ishada ephusheni kubonisa amandla esibopho nothando phakathi kukamama nendodana yakhe.
Eminye imibono ingase ibonise izinguquko ezinhle, njengokukhulelwa noma ukuthola izinzuzo ezibonakalayo, njengemali noma umsebenzi omusha, noma ngisho nokuthuthela endlini enkulu, ngaphandle kokukhohlwa ukuthi ukuchazwa kwamaphupho kungase kuhluke futhi kuhlale kuyisihloko sencazelo ebanzi encike umongo wephupho kanye nesimo somphuphi.
Ukuhunyushwa kokubona umuntu engimaziyo ungicelela umshado ephusheni nencazelo yalo
Izincazelo zokubona ukuhlanganyela emaphusheni zibonakala ngokuhlukahluka kwabo phakathi kwabesilisa nabesifazane, njengoba iphupho lomshado wamadoda libonisa izindaba ezinhle kanye nokuthuthukiswa kwezimo, futhi liyinkomba yobuhle nethemba. Uma indoda izibona iphakamisa owesifazane engakaze imazi, lokhu kubonisa ukushintshela kwakhe esigabeni esisha empilweni yakhe, uma owesifazane emuhle, ushintsho luyoba ngcono, kanti uma kungenjalo, lokhu kungase kubonise a ukwehla kwezinye izici.
Indoda ebona umshado wakhe nesalukazi ephusheni ibonisa ukusebenza kanzima ngeze. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma ukuthembisana kungokwentombazane ayaziyo, lokhu kwazisa izindaba ezijabulisayo futhi kungase kuveze nezifiso zayo siqu.
Uma indoda ibona ukuthi iphinda icela umshado kumkayo, lokhu kubonisa ukuvuselelwa kwemizwa yothando nokwethembeka phakathi kwabo, futhi kungase kubikezele ukufika kwenzalo. Ukubona umshado emzini womuntu oshonile kubonisa ukuthembisana noma umshado wesihlobo sasekhaya.
Nakuba ukubona izici zokuzibandakanya ezifana nemishado nokucula ephusheni kubhekwa njengenkomba yezinkinga nezinkinga zesikhathi esizayo. Uma ubona ukuthembisana umshado nowesifazane we-mahram, lokhu kubonisa ukuziphatha okungalungile nezono okufanele ziphenduke futhi zibuyiselwe endleleni efanele.
Incazelo yokubona umuntu engimaziyo engicela umshado ephusheni lowesifazane okhulelwe kanye nencazelo yalo
Emaphusheni, umbono wokuzibophezela kowesifazane okhulelwe unezincazelo ezigcwele ithemba nezindaba ezinhle, njengoba kubonisa usuku olusondelayo lokuzalwa kanye nokuqala kwamalungiselelo okugubha ukufika komntwana omusha. Ukubonakala komshado ephusheni lakhe kumemezela ubuhle nenjabulo kuye nasenganeni yakhe elindelwe.
Lapho owesifazane okhulelwe ezithola ethembisene umshado nomuntu amaziyo empeleni ngesikhathi sephupho lakhe, lokhu kungase kube uphawu lokuthola izindaba ezijabulisayo ezivela kulo muntu. Uma umkhwenyana ephusheni engumuntu angamazi, khona-ke lo mbono uthwala ngaphakathi kwawo izithembiso zenjabulo nenjabulo ezongena empilweni yakhe ngemva kokubeletha.
Ukuzwa injabulo nenjabulo phakathi naleli phupho kuwuphawu oluhle lokuthi ukuzalwa kuyoba lula nokuthi umama nengane yakhe bayojabulela impilo enhle. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma owesifazane ezizwa ekhathazekile futhi esaba ephusheni lakhe, lokhu kungase kubonise ukwesaba kwakhe kwangaphakathi mayelana nenqubo yokuzalwa futhi kungase kubonise ukuthi uzobhekana nezinselele ezithile phakathi nalokhu okuhlangenwe nakho.
Ngale mibono, izimfihlo ezijulile zembulwa eziphethe phakathi kwazo imilayezo epholile futhi ethembisayo yowesifazane okhulelwe, ebonisa ukuthi ukuphila kuphethe izenzakalo ezijabulisayo nezikhathi ezigcwele injabulo ezimlindile ezinsukwini ezizayo.
Umbono wokuzibandakanya ephusheni
Ekuchazeni amaphupho, ukuzibandakanya kubonisa isigaba esisha sokuzibophezela nothando, okubonisa ithemba ngekusasa nokugcwaliseka kwezifiso. Lapho umuntu ephupha ukuthi usethembise umshado, uzwakalisa ukulangazelela kwakhe ukuqala isahluko esisha, esizinzile nesijabulisayo ekuphileni kwakhe. Lolu hlobo lwephupho lungabikezela izindaba ezinhle, impumelelo emigomweni yomuntu siqu noma yobungcweti, kanye nendlela yokuziphilisa.
Ukuphupha ngokuhlongoza kungabonisa isifiso somuntu sokuthola umlingani ofanelekayo angahlanganyela naye ukuphila kwakhe, noma kungase kubonise umuzwa wesizungu kanye nokufuna ukuxhumana ngokomzwelo.
Kwabesifazane abaphupha ngokuthembisana umshado, lokhu kungase kubonise izifiso zabo ngokushada nomuntu onomthwalo wemfanelo futhi ozibophezele, kuyilapho ukuphupha ukuya ephathini yokuzibandakanya kungabonisa ukwesaba kwabo ukuzibophezela noma ukwesaba ukukhetha umlingani ongafanele.
Ukuphupha ngokuthenga ingubo yomshado kufanekisela ukulungiselela nokulungela isiteji esisha noma isenzakalo esibalulekile ekuphileni, kuyilapho ukuphupha ngokugqoka indandatho yomshado kungase kubonise ukulindela impumelelo emkhakheni womsebenzi noma ukuthola ithuba elibalulekile. Ukudansa ephathini yokuthembisana, ngakolunye uhlangothi, kungase kuphathe izinselele zezimali.
Kubantu abasha, iphupho lokuzibandakanya liyizindaba ezinhle, ezibikezela ukuzuzwa kwezinzuzo namathuba afana nomsebenzi noma ukuqala amaphrojekthi amasha. Le mibono inezithembiso zenjabulo nekusasa eliqhakazile. Iphupho lomuntu ukuthi intombazane icela isandla sakhe emshadweni lingahunyushwa njengesibonakaliso sokuza kwezikhathi ezinhle eziletha injabulo nenjabulo.
Ngokuvamile, amaphupho ahlobene nokuzibandakanya aphethe imilayezo ebalulekile mayelana nezifiso ezijulile zomuntu kanye nezifiso ngekusasa lakhe elingokomzwelo nelomsebenzi, futhi ayingxenye yenqubo yokusesha kwangaphakathi kwencazelo nenjabulo ekuphileni.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana ne-betrothal evela kothandekayo
Emaphusheni, ukubona umshado kumuntu othandana naye kuwuphawu lokufeza izinhloso umuntu aziphishekela ngentshiseko, futhi lokhu akukhawulelwe emgomweni ohlobene nomshado kuphela. Lapho intombazane izibona isephathini yayo yomshado, lapho kwenzeka izenzakalo ezingavamile, njengokudansa ngokweqile, konakala ingubo yomshado, noma izivakashi zibonakala zigqoke izingubo ezithusayo, le mibono ingase ibonise ukuthi ibhekene nobunzima obuthile ekuphileni kwayo.
Kodwa-ke, uma umbono ubonisa ukuthi iqembu lihlakaniphile futhi ligcwele ukuthula, futhi umlingani ebukeka ezolile futhi enethezekile, khona-ke lokhu kungase kubikezele ukuthi uzongena ebuhlotsheni obugcwele uthando futhi obuzothela izithelo ngokwendlela yokuziphilisa nokuhle. inzalo.
Umuntu engimaziyo ucela umshado kumuntu wesifazane odivosile ephusheni
Lapho owesifazane ohlukanisiwe ephupha ukuthi umuntu ojwayelekile ucela isandla sakhe emshadweni, lokhu kungase kube inkomba yentuthuko ephawulekayo endleleni yakhe yokuphila. Uma owesifazane ejabule emcimbini womshado ephusheni lakhe, lezi yizindaba ezinhle zomshado kumlingani ozomlethela injabulo nenjabulo.
Ukuphupha ngokuthenga ingubo yomshado kungase kubonise ukuthi kunezinselelo noma izinkinga owesifazane abhekana nazo phakathi nalesi sikhathi sokuphila kwakhe. Uma ebona ukuthi ugqoke ngenjabulo indandatho yomshado ephusheni lakhe, lokhu kuveza umuzwa wakhe wokwaneliseka nethemba ngekusasa lakhe.
Ukuhunyushwa kokuthembisana umshado kowesifazane ongashadile kumuntu amaziyo kodwa angamthandi
Lapho intombazane engashadile iphupha ukuthi othile emaziyo ucela isandla sayo ekuthembiseni umshado futhi ingezwa uthando kuyo, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuma kwayo ekufezeni amathemba namaphupho ewafunayo.
Uma ebona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi umuntu ojwayelekile uphakamisa kuye futhi uzizwa ecasukile ngalokhu, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuthi uzobhekana nezinselele noma izimo ezicasulayo empilweni yakhe.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma iphupho lihlanganisa ukugqoka indandatho yomshado, khona-ke lokhu kuyisibonakaliso esihle esiphethe izindaba ezinhle nezithembiso zezenzakalo ezijabulisayo esikhathini esizayo.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nomshado kumuntu odumile wabesifazane abangashadile
Uma intombazane engashadile iphupha ukuthi ithembisene nomuntu ovelele, lokhu kuveza izifiso zayo ekufezeni impumelelo enkulu ekuphileni kwayo. Uma ebona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi othile ucela isandla sakhe emshadweni, lokhu kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi uzogcwala injabulo nokuzijabulisa. Lawa maphupho angase futhi abonise ukuthi uzothola isikhundla esihle nesikhundla esibalulekile esikhathini esizayo.
Ukugqoka indandatho yomshado kanye nendandatho yomshado ephusheni
Emaphusheni, ukugqoka indandatho yokuthembisana kuqukethe izincazelo eziningi ezibonisa izici ezihlukahlukene zempilo. Ngokwesibonelo, kungase kubonise ikhono lokusingatha imithwalo yemfanelo noma kungase kube inkomba yomshado wesikhathi esizayo.
Uma indandatho ibonakala yenziwe ngegolide ephusheni, lokhu kungase kubonise ukukhathazeka okuhlobene nezinto ezibonakalayo, kuyilapho indandatho yensimbi iqokomisa amandla nesibindi somuntu. Ngokuqondene nendandatho yesiliva, ifanekisela izibopho ezingokomzwelo noma zenkolo.
Ukulahlekelwa noma ukuphula indandatho yokuthembisana phakathi nephupho kuyisixwayiso sezinselele ezingaba khona noma ukulahlekelwa, nokho, ukuyibona iphinde yatholakala kuwuphawu lwezindaba ezinhle namathuba amahle. Ukubona othile ethenga indandatho yokuthembisana kusikisela ukwenza izinqumo eziwujuqu, kuyilapho ukubona othile eyinikeza kubonisa ukusekela nokuqondiswa esimweni.
Ukukhipha indandatho yomshado ephusheni kungase kubonise imizwa yentukuthelo noma isifiso sokuhlukanisa nomthwalo othile. Ngokufanayo, ukubuyisela indandatho kubonisa ukuyeka izibopho ezithile.
Incazelo yalawa maphupho ingase ihluke ngokusekelwe esimweni sephupho nemizwa ehambisana nalo. Kodwa-ke, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ukuchazwa kwamaphupho kuyinkambu encike kakhulu kubuntu bomuntu ngamunye, izimo zokuphila, futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukukholelwa ekumiselweni kusengaphambili.
Iphupho lokulungiselela umshado
Ukulungiselela umcimbi wokuzibandakanya emaphusheni kubonisa ukuthola izindaba ezijabulisayo nokuzibandakanya ezenzweni eziletha injabulo nobuhle kumphuphi. Endabeni yokuphupha ngokulungiselela ukuhlanganyela kwelungu lomndeni, njengomfowethu noma udadewabo, lokhu kufanekisela ukubambisana komndeni nokusekelana phakathi kwamalungu omndeni, kuyilapho ukulungiselela ukuhlanganyela kwengane kubonisa ithemba lempumelelo yakhe yesikhathi esizayo kanye nobuhle.
Uma iphupho liphathelene nokulungiselela ukuzibandakanya komuntu oseduze njengomngane, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ubungane obuqinile nokusekelwa okuqhubekayo. Ukunaka imininingwane kanye nokulungiselela umcimbi onjalo ephusheni kuyisingathekiso sokulungiselela ngokwengqondo nokusebenzayo kokuqala isahluko esisha empilweni.
Ngokuqondene nephupho ukuthi umuntu ngokwakhe ugqoka futhi ulungiselela ukuhlanganyela kwakhe, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi ulindele ukuba yisikhungo sokunakwa nokugxila kwabanye. Ukulungiselela umshado ekhaya kuyinkomba yenjabulo esondelayo nemihlangano yomndeni efudumele, kuyilapho ukuyilungiselela endaweni yokudlela kuthumela isignali yokubamba iqhaza emicimbini yokuzijabulisa ebanzi.
Ebona ukuthembisana kwephuka ephusheni
Ukubona umshado ophela ephusheni kungase kubonise ushintsho emibonweni yomuntu noma inhloso. Uma umuntu esevele ebudlelwaneni futhi ebona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi uyaqeda lobu buhlobo, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuba khona kwezingxabano noma ukungezwani okungase kuthinte ukuqhubeka kobudlelwane.
Futhi, ukuphupha ukuqeda ukuthembisana ngenxa yokuphikelela komndeni kungase kubonise indima yabo ekuqondiseni umuntu kulokho akubona kumfanele. Uma ukuhlukaniswa ephusheni kungenxa yezizathu ezihlobene nokuziphatha, lokhu kungase kufanekisela ukulalela noma ukuvezwa enkulumweni yamanga.
Ukubuyisela izindandatho zokuzibandakanya ephusheni kungaveza umuzwa womuntu wokugwema izibopho zakhe. Ngokuqondene nomuntu owenza isinqumo sokuqeda umshado ephusheni, ubonakala njengomenzi wesinqumo oyinhloko ebuhlotsheni bakhe.
Umuntu ezibona ephula umshado wakhe nomuntu angamazi ephusheni angase abonise ukulahla umsebenzi wakhe noma umsebenzi wakhe, kuyilapho owesifazane ezibona ephula umshado wakhe nowesilisa ongaziwa ephusheni angase abonise izinguquko ezizayo empilweni yakhe futhi. ukushintsha izimo zakhe.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuthembisana umshado nowesifazane ongashadile kumuntu omaziyo futhi wenqaba
Emaphusheni, uma intombazane engashadile izithola isenqaba isicelo somshado kumuntu omazi kahle, lokhu kungase kubonise izinselele ezingokwengqondo ebhekana nazo ekuphileni kwayo. Lesi simo ephusheni singabonisa izingxabano zangaphakathi ezivimbela ukuthi aqhubekele phambili noma enze izinqumo ezibalulekile mayelana nekusasa lakhe.
Uma owesifazane osemusha ezibona ethola isipho somshado endodeni ayaziyo, kodwa ekhetha ukumenqaba ephusheni, lo mbono ungase ubonise umuzwa wakhe wokungakwazi ukulawula izici ezithile zokuphila kwakhe noma ukukhathazeka ngekusasa lakhe.
Kumfundi ongashadile ophupha ukuthi wenqaba ukushada nomuntu ojwayelene naye, lokhu kungase kube inkomba yokuhlupheka kwakhe ngenxa yokukhathazeka kwezemfundo noma ukwesaba kwakhe ukungaphumeleli okulindelekile emsebenzini wakhe wezemfundo. Lawa maphupho ngokuvamile abonisa ukungezwani okucashile okungenzeka kungabonakali ngokoqobo, kodwa athinta izinqumo zomuntu kanye nemibono yakhe ngaye nangezwe elimzungezile.
