Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho lentshumayelo lika-Ibn Sirin kanye nezazi eziphezulu

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nentshumayelo  Kungelinye lamaphupho asakaza injabulo nentokozo emiphefumulweni yabaphuphayo, bazi ukuthi iphupho linezincazelo eziningi, ezinye ezinhle nezinye ezimbi, ngakho-ke namuhla, ngewebhusayithi yethu, sizoxoxa ngencazelo yombono. Umshado ephusheni Kubo bobabili abesilisa nabesifazane, kuye ngesimo sabo somshado.

Ukuchazwa kwentshumayelo yephupho

Ukubona intshumayelo ephusheni kungomunye wemibono emihle ngempela netusekayo, ngokwalokho u-Ibn Shaheen kanye nenani labanye abahumushi abashiwo, njengoba kubonisa ukuthula kwengqondo nokuzinza, futhi nazi ezinye izincazelo ezitholakala kulo mbono:

• Ukubona umshado ephusheni kuma-bachelors kuyisibonakaliso esihle sokuthi umshado wakhe uyasondela futhi impilo yakhe izozinza ngokuvamile.
• Ukubona intshumayelo kungenye yezinto ezijabulisayo ezibonisa ukuthi izinto eziningi ezijabulisayo zizokwenzeka empilweni yomphuphi esikhathini esizayo.
• Intshumayelo ephusheni iwubufakazi bokuthi umboni wemibono empeleni ufuna umlingani omuhle azoqeda naye impilo yakhe yonke.
• Phakathi kwezincazelo ezishiwo ngenhla kukhona nokuvela kokumangala empilweni yomphuphi, futhi kuzothinta iqiniso lakhe kahle, futhi uzolithinta ezinsukwini zakhe ezizayo.
• Kodwa uma umboni wemibono engazizwanga injabulo lapho ehambela intshumayelo, khona-ke lokhu kuwubufakazi bosizi nokufika kwezindaba ezidabukisayo ezizothinta kabi impilo yomphuphi.
• Ngokuqondene nanoma ubani owayefuna ukufinyelela odabeni oluthile ekuphileni kwakhe, umbono umemezela ukufika, futhi inhliziyo yomphuphi izokujabulela kakhulu lokho.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho lentshumayelo ka-Ibn Sirin

Umbono wezintshumayelo zika-Ibn Sirin ungomunye wemibono equkethe inani elikhulu lezincazelo kanye nezinkomba.Sizoxoxa ngokubaluleke kakhulu kuyo kulokhu okulandelayo:

• Ukubona intshumayelo ephusheni kuyisibonakaliso esihle kumphuphi ukuthi uzosusa konke okuphazamisa impilo yakhe, nokuthi impilo yakhe izozinza kunanini ngaphambili.
• Ukubona ukuhlanganyela ephusheni, njengoba u-Imam Ibn Sirin echaza, ukuthi umphuphi uzothola injabulo nokwaneliseka okuphelele empilweni yakhe futhi uzobe ezungezwe abantu abamfisela okuhle futhi balethe injabulo ekuphileni kwakhe.
• Ukuya entshumayelweni yesihlobo esiseduze ephusheni kuwuphawu lokuya emcimbini ojabulisayo kulowo muntu maduzane.
• Intshumayelo ephusheni iyinkomba yezinzuzo eziningi lowo ophuphayo azozithola.
• Noma ubani obona ukuhlanganyela kwakhe ephusheni entombazaneni enhle kakhulu futhi evelele, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi uzothola izinzuzo eziningi esikhathini esizayo.
• Ukubona intshumayelo ephusheni kuwuphawu lokuqeda izinkathazo nezinkinga, futhi impilo yomphuphi izozinza uma kuqhathaniswa naphakade.
• Ngokuqondene nalowo owayezizwa ekhungathekile futhi edangele ekuphileni kwakhe, umbono ufanekisela ukuthi ikusasa liyoba ngcono, uNkulunkulu ethanda, futhi uyokwazi ukufinyelela yonke imigomo yakhe.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuzibandakanya kwabesifazane abangashadile

Ukuzibandakanya ephusheni lentombazane eyodwa kungenye yamaphupho aphethe inombolo enkulu yezincazelo ezinhle, njengoba kushiwo abahlaziyi abakhulu njengo-Ibn Sirin, futhi nansi evelele kakhulu futhi ebalulekile yalezi zincazelo:

• Ukubona ukuhlanganyela ephusheni lowesifazane oyedwa, iphupho lifakazela ukuzibandakanya kwangempela komphuphi ezinsukwini ezizayo.
• Phakathi kwezincazelo zombono ukuthi umphuphi unenani elikhulu lokuziphatha okuhle, futhi ngokujwayelekile ungubuntu obudumile endaweni yakhe yezenhlalo.
• Kodwa uma eya emsebenzini omusha, umbono ubonisa ukuthi uzothola inzuzo eningi yezezimali, futhi umsebenzi uzosiza ukuthuthukisa izinga lakhe lezenhlalakahle.
• Ukubona ukuhlanganyela ephusheni lowesifazane ongashadile kubonisa ukuthi uzoshada nensizwa ayithandayo futhi enemizwa isikhathi eside.
• Kodwa uma ehlushwa ukukhathazeka nokudabuka, umbono umemezela ukufika kwenjabulo empilweni yakhe ngokushabalala kokukhathazeka nokucindezeleka.
• Owaphupha ethembisana umshado kodwa usizi lubonakala ebusweni bakhe, kukhomba ukuthi akajabule neze empilweni yakhe ngenxa yobuningi bezinkinga abhekene nazo.

Ukuzibandakanya ephusheni kwabesifazane abangashadile kumuntu ongamazi

Ukubona umshado ephusheni kowesifazane ongashadile ovela kumuntu ongaziwa kungenye yamaphupho aphethe izincazelo ezihlukahlukene. Nazi ezivelele kakhulu kuzo:

• Ukushada nomuntu ongaziwa ephusheni kuwuphawu lokuthi inhlanhla izohamba naye phakathi nezinsuku ezizayo, futhi, uNkulunkulu ethanda, uzokwazi ukufinyelela yonke imigomo yakhe.
• Ukuhlanganyela ephusheni lowesifazane oyedwa kumuntu ongaziwa, futhi usizi lwalubonakala ebusweni bakhe.Umbono lapha ubonisa ukuthi umphuphi ubhekana nokuguquguquka kanye nezinguquko ezinkulu empilweni yakhe.
• Intshumayelo ephusheni lowesifazane oyedwa ovela kumuntu ongaziwa ibonisa ukuthi uzovezwa isifo esiyisono esizothinta impilo yakhe.
• Ngokuqondene nowesifazane ongashadile ofuna ithuba elifanelekayo lomsebenzi, iphupho limtshela ukuthi uzowuthola lowo msebenzi ezinsukwini ezizayo, ngeholo eliphezulu.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuzibandakanya kowesifazane oshadile

Ukubuka intshumayelo ephusheni ngowesifazane oshadile kungenye yamaphupho abonisa ukuthula kwengqondo, ukuzinza, nezinye izincazelo eziningi. Nazi ezivelele kakhulu:

• Ukuhlanganyela ephusheni kowesifazane oshadile kuwuphawu lokuthi izimo zakhe zokuphila zizoqala ukulinganisa, futhi uNkulunkulu wazi kangcono.
• Phakathi kwezincazelo ezishiwo ngu-Ibn Sirin ukuhamba kokudabuka nokukhathazeka empilweni yakhe kanye nokufika kwezinzuzo nenjabulo.
• Ukubona umshado ephusheni lowesifazane oshadile kuyinkomba yokuthi uthuthukisa ukukhuliswa kwezingane zakhe futhi ulandela indlela engcono kakhulu yokubhekana nazo, njengoba engumngane kubo ngaphambi kokuba abe ngumama.
• U-Ibn Shaheen uthi: Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana ne-betrothal Ephusheni lowesifazane oshadile, uzokhulelwa maduzane.
• Kubuye kukhulunywe ngazo ekuchazeni leli phupho ukuthi umyeni womphuphi uzothola isikhundla esibalulekile ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ezizayo.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nomshado nowesifazane okhulelwe

• Uma owesifazane okhulelwe ebona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi uya emcimbini wokuzibandakanya, khona-ke umbono ubonisa ukuthi ukuzalwa kwakhe kusondela, azi ukuthi ukuzalwa kuyoba lula futhi kungabi nabuhlungu.
• Ukubona intshumayelo ephusheni wesifazane okhulelwe kuwubufakazi bokuzinza kwempilo yakhe ezinsukwini zokugcina zokukhulelwa.
• Intshumayelo ephusheni lowesifazane okhulelwe iwubufakazi bokuthi uzozala intombazane enhle kakhulu futhi uzoba nenani lokuziphatha okuhle.
• Ngokuqondene nalowo ohlushwa ukudabuka empilweni yakhe, iphupho limtshela ukuthi zonke izimo zokuphila kwakhe zizoshintsha zibe ngcono, futhi maduze uzothola induduzo enhliziyweni yakhe.
• Ngokuqondene nalowo ophupha ukuthi uya emcimbini wakhe womshado, kodwa akazange ajabule, umbono ubonisa ukuntengantenga kwesimo sakhe sempilo.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuzibandakanya kowesifazane ohlukanisile

Izincazelo kanye nezincazelo ukuthi umbono womshado othwala ephusheni lowesifazane ohlukanisile ziyahlukahluka, futhi nazi izincazelo ezivelele kakhulu ezikuthwalayo, ngokwalokho okushiwo abahumushi abahamba phambili bamaphupho:

• Uma owesifazane ohlukanisile ebona ukuthi ugqoke ingubo enhle ukuze aye emcimbini wakhe womshado, lokhu kubonisa ukuqinisekiswa nokuthula kwengqondo.
• Phakathi kwalezi zincazelo esezishiwo ngenhla wukuthi maduze nje uzohlangana nomuntu omusha empilweni yakhe futhi uzomphatha ngomusa omkhulu.
• Iphupho liphinde libonise umuzwa wenjabulo yeqiniso nokuzinza kwazo zonke izimo zomphuphi.
• Kodwa uma ebona ukuthi uqonywe ngumuntu angamazi futhi ugqoke izingubo ezingcolile, lokhu kuwubufakazi bobukhulu besiphithiphithi aphila kuso njengamanje.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuqonywa kowesilisa

Indoda ingabona emaphusheni ayo izimo eziningana ezahlukene ezihlobene nokuzibandakanya emaphusheni ayo. Nazi izinkomba ezivelele kakhulu zalo mbono:

• Ukubona ukuhlanganyela ephusheni kumuntu ongashadile kuyisibonakaliso esihle sokuthi maduzane uzoshada nentombazane ayiphupha kakhulu.
• Ochwepheshe bokuhumusha baphinde baveze ukuthi ophuphile uzothola injabulo nenduduzo abeyintula sonke lesi sikhathi.
• Phakathi kwezincazelo ezishiwo ngenhla ukuthi lowo ophuphayo maduze uzothola ithuba lomsebenzi endaweni ehloniphekile.
• Ukubona intshumayelo ephusheni lomuntu kuhle, kodwa ngombandela wokuthi kukude nomculo nokucula.
• Ukubona umshado ephusheni lomuntu, futhi kwakuseMaazif, kuwubufakazi bokuthi wenza enye yezinengiso.

Iyini incazelo yephupho mayelana nokuzibandakanya kwe-bachelor?

• Uma umuntu ongashadile ebona ephusheni ukuthi uya entanjeni yakhe yomshado, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi maduze uzoshada, avalelise ukungashadi, futhi aphile izinsuku ezijabulisayo eduze komlingani wakhe wokuphila.
• Kodwa uma i-bachelor ibona ukuthi ukuhlanganyela kwakhe kwenzeka nentombazane engaziwa, khona-ke umbono lapha ubonisa ukuthi into engathandeki futhi engalindelekile izokwenzeka empilweni yomphuphi.
• Kodwa uma egula, iphupho limemezela ukululama kwakhe kulesi sifo maduzane.
• Ngokuqondene nomuntu owayebhekene nezinto ezinzima emsebenzini, ukubona ukuhlanganyela ephusheni kuyisibonakaliso esihle sokuthuthela emsebenzini omusha, okuzoba ngcono kakhulu.
• Ukuhlanganyela ephusheni kuma-bachelors kuwuphawu lokuthola imali eningi.

Lithini incazelo yephupho lokuqonywa kumuntu engimaziyo?

• Ukubhebha umuntu engimaziyo ephusheni kuyinkomba yomshado maduze nje ephusheni kwababhebhayo noma osisi.
• Iphupho libuye lichaze ukuthi lowo ophuphayo ekugcineni uzokwazi ukuyithola into abekade eyifuna.
• Noma ubani ohlushwa umunyu nokukhathazeka empilweni yakhe, khona-ke ukubona umshado othile angamazi kuyinkomba yokuzinza kwempilo yakhe kanye nokuphela kokugcina kosizi nosizi.

Ithini incazelo yephupho lokuqonywa kusuka kumthandi?

• Ukubona ukuhlanganyela kothandekayo ephusheni kungenye yamaphupho amemezela umshado maduze kulo muntu kakade.
• Phakathi kwezincazelo ezibuye zikhulume ngokuthola izindaba eziningi ezijabulisayo ezizoholela ekushintsheni okuningi okuphawulekayo empilweni yomphuphi.
• Ukuzibandakanya kothandiweyo kuwuphawu lokufinyelela izinjongo eziningi kanye nentuthuko ephawulekayo empilweni yomuntu siqu neyomsebenzi wombonisi.

Iyini incazelo yokugqoka ingubo yomshado ephusheni?

• Egqoke ingubo Ukuzibandakanya ephusheni kwabesifazane abangashadile Isibonakaliso sokuthi maduze uzoshada nendoda efanele, azi ukuthi uzophila izinsuku eziningi ezijabulisayo naye.
• Ukugqoka ingubo yomshado futhi yadalulwa kukhomba ukuthi owesifazane osembonweni uzobhekana nezinkinga eziningi empilweni yakhe, futhi uzolahlekelwa yimali eningi.
• Ukugqoka ingubo yomshado enesizotha kuwubufakazi obuhle bokuthi owesifazane wombono uzojabulela impilo nesembozo empilweni yakhe, futhi uzoba nedumela elihle phakathi kwabantu.
• Abanye abahumushi bamaphupho bakholelwa ukuthi ukubona ukugqoka ingubo kusho... Umshado ephusheni Ubufakazi bokuthola umsebenzi ohlonishwayo.

Intshumayelo yomuntu omkhulu ephusheni

• Intshumayelo evela kumuntu osekhulile ephusheni iwuphawu lokuthi impilo yomphuphi izofakaza izinguquko eziningi ezinkulu.Ngokuqondene nekhwalithi yalezi zinguquko, zihlobene nemininingwane yokuphila komphuphi.
• Ukuzibandakanya kwendoda enkulu ephusheni lowesifazane oyedwa kubonisa ukuthi uzoshada nendoda enegunya futhi unesikhundla esikhulu emphakathini ahlala kuwo.
• Phakathi kokuhunyushwa okungekuhle kwalo mbono wukuthi umboni wemibono uzothwala imithwalo nezibopho eziningi empilweni yakhe.

Umshado nomshado ephusheni

• Umshado nomshado ephusheni kuwuphawu lokuthi umphuphi uzoqedela into engekho ekuphileni kwakhe.
• Iphupho liphinde libhekisele ekufinyeleleni imigomo namaphupho kanye nokunqoba zonke izithiyo nezithiyo ezivela empilweni yomphuphi.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nendandatho yokuthembisana

• Ukubona indandatho yomshado ephusheni lowesifazane okhulelwe kuyisibonakaliso esihle sokuthi uzozala intombazane enhle kakhulu.
• Indandatho yokuzibandakanya ephusheni iwubufakazi bokuthi umphuphi uzophila izinsuku eziningi ezijabulisayo.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho lokungavumelani nentshumayelo

• Ukwenqaba intshumayelo ephusheni kuyinkomba yokuthi umphuphi uzovezwa inkinga yezinto ezibonakalayo noma inkinga yomzwelo.
• Ukwenqaba ukuhlanganyela ephusheni kuyinkomba yokuchayeka ezinkingeni eziningi zomphakathi, futhi iphupho lichazela owesifazane oshadile ukuthi uzohlukana nomyeni wakhe.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuvuma intshumayelo

• Ukuvumelana nokuzibandakanya ephusheni kuyinkomba yokuthi lowo ophuphayo uzokwazi ukufeza wonke amaphupho akhe nezifiso zakhe.
• Ukubona ukuvunyelwa kokuzibandakanya ephusheni lowesifazane ongashadile kuyisibonakaliso esihle sokuthi ukuhlanganyela kwakhe kuzokwenzeka maduzane nakumuntu amthandayo.

Ukumenyezelwa kokuzibandakanya ephusheni

• Ukubona umshado ephusheni kuwuphawu oluhle lokuthola imali eningi, nokuthi lowo ophuphayo uzokwazi ukukhokha zonke izikweletu zakhe.
• Ukuhlanganyela ephusheni kuwuphawu oluhle lokuthi impilo yomphuphi izoba nenani elikhulu lezenzakalo ezinhle, ngaphezu kokufinyelela imigomo nezifiso.
• Phakathi kwezihumusho ezibaluliwe wukuthi unombono uzothola ithuba lomsebenzi akade ewufuna, azi ukuthi uzokwazi ukuzuza impumelelo enkulu.
• Ukuhlanganyela ephusheni kubhekisela enkululekweni yababoshiwe, umshado wesoka, nokukhulelwa kowesifazane oshadile.