Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuzibandakanya kowesifazane ohlukanisile ngokusho kuka-Ibn Sirin

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2024-04-08T05:32:19+02:00
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Ukuzibandakanya ephusheni kowesifazane ohlukanisile

Iphupho mayelana nokuzibandakanya kowesifazane ohlukanisile libonisa isikhathi esisha nesizayo empilweni yakhe.
Uma ephupha ngokuthembisana umshado nendoda okungeyena owayengumyeni wakhe, lokhu kuveza ukuhlukana kokugcina nokuhlukana nenkathi yakhe edlule.
Nakuba ephupha ebungaza umshado wakhe nowayengumyeni kungase kubonise isifiso sakhe noma ithuba lokubuyela emininingwaneni yokuphila kwakhe kwakudala.
Ukuphupha uthembisana umshado nomuntu ongaziwa kungase kubonise amathuba amasha emisebenzi aseduze.

Uma owesifazane ohlukanisile ethola indandatho yokuthembisana ephusheni lakhe, lokhu kumemezela ukufika kokudla nokuhle empilweni yakhe.
Ngokuqondene nephupho lakhe lokugqoka ingubo yomshado, kungase kube inkomba yomshado oseduze.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuphupha ngokuqeda umshado kubonisa ukuhoxa ezinhlelweni noma ezintweni abefuna ukuzifeza.
Uma ephupha ukuthi wenqaba umshado, lokhu kusho ukuthi uyawenqaba umqondo womshado futhi.
Njengenjwayelo, ukuhunyushwa kwamaphupho kuhlala kufihlwe yimfihlakalo futhi uNkulunkulu wazi kangcono amaqiniso.

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Incazelo yokwenqaba umshado ephusheni

Uma umuntu ephupha ukuthi wenqaba isithembiso sokuthembisana, lokhu kungase kubonise ukugodla kwakhe ngokungena kubambiswano olusha noma izibopho.
Uma ephusheni amalungu omndeni yibo abaphikisana nokuzibandakanya, lokhu kungase kubonise ukwenza izinqumo ezibalulekile ezithakazelisa umphuphi, naphezu kobunzima babo.
Amantombazane aphupha ngokuthi abazali bawo benqaba ukuthembisana umshado angase ahlehle ezinqumweni ezizobaletha enkingeni.

Ukuphupha ukwenqaba umshado kumuntu ophuphayo omaziyo kungase kufanekisele ukuphumula ebuhlotsheni noma ukuvela kwebanga nokuhlukaniswa phakathi kwabo.
Uma umemukeli ephusheni engumuntu oseduze, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuvela kokungavumelani phakathi komndeni okungase kubangele izinkinga ezinkulu.

Kwezinye izimo, ukuhlanganyela okungaphelele ephusheni kungase kubonise umuzwa wokungabi nalutho noma ukulahlekelwa ukuhlonishwa nesimo senhlalo.
Uma umuntu ongashadile aziwa ngumphuphi, lokhu kungase kusho ukuthola izindaba ezingemnandi mayelana nalo muntu.
Izincazelo zamaphupho zihlala ziguquguquka futhi ziyahlukahluka kuye ngezimo nemibono yomuntu ngamunye, futhi uNkulunkulu uSomandla uPhezukonke futhi Wazi Konke.

Ebona ukuthembisana kwephuka ephusheni

Ezweni lamaphupho, isenzakalo sokuqeda umshado sinezincazelo ezijulile ezihlobene nezinguquko emibonweni nasezimo zengqondo.
Lapho umuntu ebona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi ukhansele ukuhlanganyela kwakhe, futhi lo muntu wayesevele ehlanganyela eqinisweni, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuba khona kwezinselele nokuhlukana okungasongela ukuqhubeka kwalobu buhlobo.
Futhi, ukuphupha ukuqeda ukuxoxisana ngesisusa somndeni womuntu kubonisa indima yabo ekuqondiseni umuntu kulokho abakholelwa ukuthi kungcono kakhulu ngekusasa lakhe kanye nenhlalakahle yakhe.
Uma umshado unqanyuliwe ephusheni ngenxa yezizathu ezihlobene nokuziphatha, lokhu kubonisa umuzwa wokwenqaba izenzo ezingalungile namanga.

Ukubuyisela izindandatho zokuzibandakanya ephusheni kubonisa ukuyeka izibopho ezithile noma izibopho.
Mayelana nomuntu othatha isinyathelo sokunqamula ukubandakanyeka ephusheni lakhe, ubonakala njengomuntu olawulayo futhi othatha izinqumo ezibalulekile ezindabeni zobudlelwane.

Ukuphupha uqeda umshado nomuntu ongaziwa kunezincazelo ezihlobene nomsebenzi kanye nesimo senhlalo.
Kumuntu, ukuhlukana nomshado wakhe nowesifazane ongaziwa kungase kusho ukushiya umsebenzi wakhe, kuyilapho owesifazane ophupha ngokuhlukana kwakhe nendoda engaziwa uhlangabezana nesikhathi soshintsho noshintsho empilweni yakhe.
Njalo, ukuhunyushwa kwamaphupho kuhlala kuvulekele ukuchazwa, futhi uNkulunkulu kuphela owaziyo ukuthi ayini.

Ukubona ukuzibandakanya komuntu ephusheni

Uma kubonakala ephusheni ukuthi umuntu ojwayele umshado, lokhu kuyinkomba yokufika kwezindaba ezijabulisayo ezihlobene nalo muntu.
Uma ukuzibandakanya kwelungu lomndeni noma isihlobo kubonakala, leli phupho lingabhekwa njengenkomba yokwabelana ngefa.
Ngenkathi ukubona umlingani noma isithandwa ukubandakanyeka ephusheni kubonisa ukuthi umphuphi udlula enkathini yokukhathazeka nokungezwani.
Ukuphupha ngokuthembisana umshado nothile owayephila futhi wafa nakho kuthathwa njengenkomba yokuma okuhle kwalo muntu ekuphileni kwangemva kokufa.

Ukubona ukuhlanganyela komuntu oshadile ephusheni kubonisa ukwanda kokuziphilisa nezibusiso empilweni yalo muntu, kuyilapho ukubona ukuhlanganyela kowesifazane oshadile kubonisa ukuthuthukiswa nokwandiswa kwesimo sakhe sokuphila.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma umuntu ohlanganyela ephusheni engaziwa kumphuphi, khona-ke lo mbono uyizindaba ezinhle zenjabulo ezayo kanye nobuhle obuningi.

Ukubona ukuzibandakanya komuntu owaziwayo kumphuphi uthembisa ukufika kwezindaba ezijabulisayo mayelana nalo muntu.
Ukuphupha ngokuthembisana kwendodana kuhambisana nezincazelo zempumelelo nokufinyelela imigomo ngemva kwezikhathi zomzamo nobunzima, futhi iphupho ngokuthembisana komzalwane liqokomisa isidingo sokunikeza ukusekela nosizo kuye ukuze athuthukise izimo zokuphila kwakhe.
Yebo, uNkulunkulu wazi konke.

Iphupho lokulungiselela umshado

Emaphusheni, ukulungiselela iphathi yomshado kubonisa isigaba esisha esigcwele ubuhle nenjabulo kumphuphi.
Lapho umuntu ezibona esebenza emalungiselelweni okuthembisana umfowabo noma udadewabo, lokhu kubonisa indima yakhe yenkuthalo ekubasekeleni nasekuthwaleni ingxenye yemithwalo yabo yokuphila.
Lesi sigcawu sifakwe emfanekisweni wokuhlanganyela injabulo nentokozo nabo.
Ngokufanayo, uma iphupho lihlobene namalungiselelo okuzibandakanya kwengane noma isihlobo, lokhu kufanekisela ithemba lokufeza izimpumelelo ezibalulekile nokwesekana phakathi kwamalungu omndeni nabangane ezikhathini ezibaluleke kakhulu.

Ukulungiselela ngokuqondile ukuhlanganyela komuntu siqu ephusheni, njengokungathi owesifazane ezibona ezihlobisa futhi egqoke ingubo yomshado, kubonisa isifiso sokuba isikhungo sokunakwa nokuhlonishwa kwabanye.

Futhi, ukuhlela ukwenza umcimbi wokuthembisana ekhaya kumemezela ukufika kwemicimbi yomndeni egcwele injabulo nokusondelana, kuyilapho ukuyilungiselela endaweni yomphakathi njengendawo yokudlela kubonisa ukulungiselela ukuhambela umcimbi ohlanganisa indilinga yabantu abaningi.

Ngamafuphi, amaphupho amayelana nokulungiselela umshado abonisa injabulo nempumelelo futhi abonisa ukusekela kwethu abantu abaseduze kakhulu nezinhliziyo zethu, aqinisa ukuxhumana nomphakathi futhi asinikeze amazwibela ezinto ezinhle ezizayo.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana ne-betrothal kusuka kumuntu owaziwayo

Lapho umuntu ojwayelekile evela ephusheni lakho ephakamisa kuwe, lokhu kungase kufanekisele ukuqala umsebenzi noma iphrojekthi naye.
Uma umuntu othembisene naye ephusheni eshonile, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuhlanganyela emzamweni obonakala ungenathemba.
Ngokuqondene nokuzibandakanya nomuntu ovelele ephusheni, kubonisa ukuzuza isimo esiphakeme noma ukwazisa okuphezulu.
Uma umuntu ebonakala ephusheni ephoqeleka ukuba ahlanganyele nomuntu amaziyo, lokhu kubonisa ukusebenza nalo muntu ngaphandle kwesifiso.

Uma owesifazane ebona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi uthembisene nomzala wakhe, lokhu kuyinkomba yokwanda kokwethembana nokusekelwa phakathi komndeni wakhe.
Iphupho lomshado womzala libuye libe uphawu lwenjabulo nenjabulo evela ezihlotsheni.

Ukulungiselela umshado kumuntu owaziwayo ephusheni ubikezela ukufeza umgomo noma ukuxazulula inkinga ngosizo lwalowo muntu.
Uma uphupha ukuthi uya ekuhlanganyeleni komuntu omaziyo, lokhu kukuthumela iziphakamiso zezindaba ezijabulisayo ezihlobene naye.

Ukuchazwa kwephupho mayelana nokuhlukana nengoduso

Umbono wokuqeda ukuhlanganyela emaphusheni wesifazane osemusha ongashadile ubonisa izinguquko kanye nezinguquko angazifakaza empilweni yakhe.
Lezi zinguquko zingase zibonise izinqumo ezibalulekile zomuntu siqu ezenziwa intombazane, ezingase zithinte ngokuqondile inkambo yempilo yayo yesikhathi esizayo.
Uma ebonakala ephusheni ebukeka edabukile ngenkathi eqeda umshado wakhe, lokhu kungase kubonise izinguquko ezingafuneki noma eziphoqelelwe ezenzeka empilweni yakhe.

Le mibono futhi isebenza njengezimpawu zokucabanga nokucubungula kabusha izinqumo noma izimo ezithile.
Njengokuqeda umshado ngaphansi kwethonya lengcindezi yomndeni, kungase kubonise izinguquko noma ushintsho oluhlose ukuthuthukisa ubuntu bentombazane ngokusekelwe ngezeluleko nesiqondiso esivela emndenini.
Uma ukunqanyulwa bekungenxa yezizathu ezihlobene nezimiso zokuziphatha, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuba khona kwezikhundla noma izitatimende ezingahambisani nezimiso nezinkolelo zakhe zomuntu siqu.

Lapho intombazane iphupha ukuthi ibuyisela indandatho yomshado kumkhwenyana wayo, lokhu kungase kufanekisela ukuthi ulahla imithwalo yemfanelo noma izibopho ezithile ekuphileni kwakhe.
Uma iphupho likhuluma ngomlingani eveza isifiso sakhe sokuqeda umshado, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuthi uzothola izindaba ezidabukisayo noma eziphazamisayo.
Mayelana nokwenqaba kwesoka ukuqeda umshado, kungase kubonise ukuba khona kwezithiyo ezithiya ukufezwa kwezinhloso noma izifiso zakhe.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, lapho intombazane ibona ephusheni layo ukuthi izama ukuqeda umshado wayo kodwa ayikwazi, lokhu kungase kubonise ngaphakathi isifiso sayo sokufuna ukuzinza nokwakha isisekelo esiqinile sekusasa layo.
Ngomqondo ohlukile, uma umkhwenyana wakhe enqaba ukuyiqeda ephusheni, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuba khona kwesibopho esiqinile nemizwa ejulile phakathi kwabo.

Ebona umshado unqanyulwa ephusheni ekhala

Amaphupho aqukethe izigcawu zokukhala ngenxa yokuphela kobudlelwano bokuthembisana abonisa isethi yezincazelo eziningi ezinikeza ithemba nezincazelo.
Uma umuntu ephupha ekhala ngenxa yokuthi umshado wakhe usuphelile, lokhu kungase kuveze ukuthi uqeda usizi nezinkinga ebezimthwalisa kanzima.
Entombazaneni engashadile, iphupho lingase libonise izixazululo zokungezwani noma ukugqugquzela izindaba ayejwayele ukuzithola ziyinkimbinkimbi.

Ngaphakathi kwalo mongo, uma udade ebonakala ephusheni ekhala ngenxa yokuthi umshado wakhe uphukile, lokhu kungase kufanekisele ukuvuselelwa kobudlelwane nobudlelwano obamiswa noma obuphelile.
Ukuphupha indodakazi ikhala ngesizathu esifanayo kuyisibonakaliso sokuphela kwezinkinga zezimali noma ukuthuthukiswa kwesimo sokuphila.

Uma ubona umuntu oseduze noma owaziwayo ebhekana nezikhathi zokudabuka ngenxa yokuhoxiswa kokuzibandakanya kwakhe ephusheni, lokhu kungahunyushwa njengokuqeda ukucindezeleka kwakhe noma ukuqala kwesigaba esisha, esihle kakhulu empilweni yakhe.
Futhi, ukuphupha ngesihlobo kuleli cala kubonisa ithuba lokuxhuma kabusha nokuphulukisa ukuhlukana ngemva kwesikhathi sebanga noma ukungezwani.

Ngokuvamile, lawa maphupho aphethe imilayezo yethemba nethemba, ngokuvamile ehlotshaniswa nomuntu onqoba izithiyo, ukuthuthukisa ubudlelwano bomuntu siqu, nokwamukela isiteji esisha esigcwele induduzo nokuqinisekiswa.

Ebona umshado unqanyulwa ephusheni ekhala

Ezweni lamaphupho, izikhathi ezingokomzwelo zingathwala izincazelo ezijulile.
Lapho umuntu ephupha ngokukhala ngenxa yokuqeda umshado, lokhu kungase kubonise izinguquko ezinhle ekuphileni kwakhe kwangempela.
Entombazaneni engakaqonywa bese izithola isikhala ephusheni ukuze ihlukane nokujola, lokhu kungaba wuphawu lokuthi izithiyo zizoshabalala futhi izimo zekusasa zizothuthuka.
Uma empeleni ethembisene umshado, iphupho lakhe lingase libonise ukuphela kwezingxabano nezinkinga nesoka lakhe.

Ukuphupha ngelungu lomndeni, elinjengodadewenu noma indodakazi, elikhalela ukwehlukana nokuthembisana kwalo kungase kubikezele ukuthola izixazululo zezinkinga ezivelele noma ukuvuselela ubuhlobo bangaphambili nokusebenzisana.
Futhi, uma kukhona intombazane eyaziwayo noma engavamile evela ephusheni futhi ikhala ngenxa yalesi sizathu, lokhu kungase kufanekisela ukunqoba kwakhe isigaba esinzima kanye nokuqala kwesiteji esisha, esihle kakhulu.

Amadoda nawo angase abe namaphupho afanayo, njengoba ukukhala kwawo ephusheni mayelana nokuhlukana nomshado kubonisa ukuqeda izingcindezi nezithiyo.
Uma ephusheni umuntu ophuphayo azi noma isihlobo sikhala ngesizathu esifanayo, lokhu kungase kubonise amathuba okubuyisana noma ukukhululeka ebunzimeni.

Ekugcineni, ukukhala ephusheni mayelana nokuhlukana komshado kungabhekwa njengophawu lokukhululwa ebunzimeni nokwamukela isikhathi esisha esigcwele amathuba kanye nemibono emihle.

Incazelo yokubona ingoduso yami endlini yethu ephusheni

Uma ingoduso ibonakala emaphusheni ethu isekhaya, lokhu kukhombisa izimpawu eziningi ezihlobene nenkambo yobudlelwano phakathi kwezingoduso.
Uma ingoduso ibonakala ingena endlini ephusheni, lokhu kuyinkomba yokuzimisela kwayo ukubamba iqhaza futhi ihambisane neziqondiso nezeluleko.
Mayelana nokubona ingoduso iphuma endlini, kuveza isigaba sokungaboni ngaso linye noma ibanga ubudlelwano obungase budlule kulo.
Uma ingoduso ixoshwa endlini ephusheni, lokhu kufanekisela izinselele ezinamandla ezingase ziholele ekuhlukaneni.

Ukubonakala kwengoduso ephusheni ihlanganyela emisebenzini efana nokudla noma ukuhlala ngaphakathi kwendlu iphethe izincazelo ezinhle zokwanda kwezibusiso nobuhle empilweni, futhi kungase kubonise nezinsuku zomshado ezisondelayo.
Mayelana nesithombe sengoduso ekhombisa ukunethezeka nokuphumula, siveza ukuzola nokuzinza ebudlelwaneni.

Amaphupho akhombisa ingoduso ihlanza indlu ayizinkomba zokuziphatha okuhle nezindinganiso eziphakeme, kanti iphupho lokuyibona ingcolisa inhlanzeko yendlu liwuphawu lokuziphatha okubi nokungavumelani kokuziphatha.
Le mibono iyonke isinikeza ukuqonda okujulile mayelana nokuguquguquka kobudlelwane phakathi kwabashadile abathembisene futhi inikeza izimpawu ezingacatshangwa ukuze siqonde kangcono inkambo yobudlelwano.

Ukugqoka indandatho yomshado kanye nendandatho yomshado ephusheni

Ekuchazeni amaphupho, ukucabangela uphawu lwendandatho, ikakhulukazi indandatho yomshado, kubhekwa njengenkomba yeqembu lezincazelo ezisukela phakathi kokwethembeka nokuthwala umthwalo futhi zingase zifinyelele iphuzu lemishado nezinyunyana.
Isibonelo, ukuthwala indandatho yokuthembisana eyenziwe ngegolide kungase kubonise ubungozi bokulahlekelwa imali noma ukuntula indlela yokuziphilisa, kuyilapho indandatho yensimbi ifanekisela amandla nesibindi.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukubonakala kwendandatho yesiliva ephusheni kungase kusho ukuqedwa okuseduze komshado othile noma izindaba zenkolo, kuyilapho indandatho yethusi iphethe izincazelo zenhlanhla nezindaba ezimbi.

Ukukhipha iringi emunweni kuveza imizwa yentukuthelo noma ukubhekana nezikhathi ezinzima, futhi ukusebenzela ukuyibuyisela kungase kusikisele ukususa eminye imithwalo.
Ukuphihlizwa kwendandatho yokuthembisana futhi kuwuphawu lokubhekana nobunzima noma ukuwela ebunzimeni, futhi ukulahlekelwa yibona kubonisa izikhathi ezinzima noma ukulahlekelwa.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukutholakala kwendandatho yokuthembisana elahlekile kuletha izindaba ezinhle.

Ngokuqondene nokuthenga noma ukwamukela indandatho yokuthembisana njengesipho ephusheni, lokhu ngokuvamile kuhlobene nesikhathi somphuphi sokwenza izinqumo ezibalulekile noma ukuthola iseluleko esibalulekile nesiqondiso, futhi iphupho ngalinye linencazelo yalo futhi uNkulunkulu wazi kangcono.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuzibandakanya kowesifazane ongashadile ovela kumuntu ongaziwa

Uma intombazane ibona ephusheni layo ukuthi ishada nendoda engayazi futhi izizwa ijabule ngalokho, lokhu kubonisa impumelelo nempumelelo ezindaweni ezihlukahlukene zokuphila kwakhe.
Nokho, uma ebona ukuthi ukubukeka kwesoka lakhe kuvusa ukukhathazeka nokwesaba kuye, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuthi ubhekene nezinguquko ezinkulu ezimenza azizwe engazinzile.
Uma umuntu ovela ephusheni lakhe njengesoka engafaneleki futhi enokubukeka okungamukeleki, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi avele enkingeni enkulu yezempilo engase ithinte izici ezihlukahlukene zokuphila kwakhe, kuhlanganise nomkhakha wakhe womsebenzi uma esebenza. .

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuzibandakanya kowesifazane ongashadile nesithandwa sakhe

Uma intombazane ibona ukuthi isoka lakhe licela isandla sakhe ephusheni, lokhu kubonisa isifiso sakhe esinamandla sokufeza leli phupho ngokoqobo.

Lapho intombazane ithola isikhathi sokungavumelani nomlingani wayo futhi ithola ephusheni layo ukuthi iphakamisa kuye, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi lezi zinkinga zizophela maduze futhi ubuhlobo buzobuyela esimweni esijwayelekile.

Ngokusho kwencazelo ka-Al-Nabulsi, ukubona umshado nesithandwa sakhe ephusheni lentombazane kuwuphawu lokufeza izinhloso azifunayo empilweni yakhe yezemfundo noma yobungcweti.

Ukubona ukuzibandakanya kwentombazane nesithandwa sakhe ephusheni kuhambisana nezimpawu zenjabulo nezenzakalo ezinhle empilweni yentombazane.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuzibandakanya kowesifazane oshadile ngaphandle komyeni wakhe

Emaphusheni, isithombe sowesifazane oshadile ethembisene omunye umuntu ngaphandle komyeni wakhe sibonisa izincazelo ezinhle ezihilela izinguquko ezithelayo empilweni yakhe.
Isibonelo, lo mbono ungase ubonise ukuqala kwesigaba esisha sokubambisana nempumelelo emkhakheni womsebenzi ngokubambisana nabanye, lapho kufinyelelwa khona impumelelo ephawulekayo ehlukanisayo futhi ithuthukise isikhundla sayo.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukubona ukuhlanganyela ephusheni lowesifazane oshadile kungahunyushwa njengezindaba ezinhle nezibusiso ezizayo empilweni yakhe, ezingase zimelelwe indlela yokuziphilisa kanye nezinzuzo eziningi azozithola endleleni yakhe.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, lo mbono ungase uveze ukugcwaliseka kwezifiso ngemva komzamo nemizamo, njengokuba nabantwana ngemva kokulinda, okwenezela ukuthinta kwethemba nethemba ngekusasa.

Esimweni esihlobene, iphupho lokuzibandakanya kowesifazane oshadile komunye umuntu limelela inkomba yengcebo nokuchuma okuzomzungezile maduze, kumlethele injabulo nenjabulo enkulu.

Ngalezi zincazelo, imibono ehlobene nokuzibandakanya ephusheni lowesifazane oshadile ibonakala njengezibonakaliso zokuvuselela okunethemba kanye nenqubekela phambili ezicini ezihlukahlukene zokuphila kwakhe.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuzibandakanya kowesifazane oshadile nomuntu omaziyo

Uma owesifazane ephupha ukuthi othile amaziyo uphakamisa kuye ephusheni, lokhu kubonisa isimo sokwaneliseka nenjabulo ayitholayo kulesi sigaba sokuphila kwakhe.

Endabeni yowesifazane oshadile, uma ebona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi othile amaziyo ucela isandla sakhe emshadweni, lokhu kuwubufakazi benjabulo nenhlalakahle ayijabulelayo ekuphileni kwakhe komshado.

Kodwa-ke, uma owesifazane oshadile ebona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi umuntu owaziwayo ucela umshado kuye, lokhu kubonisa ikhono lakhe eliphezulu lokuhlakanipha nengqondo ekubhekaneni nezimo ezihlukahlukene, okwenza abantu baphendukele kuye befuna izeluleko nezixazululo izinkinga zabo.

Iphupho lokuzibandakanya komuntu wesifazane we-mahram ephusheni libuye libhekwe njengenkomba yokwazisa okukhulu kanye nesimo esiphakeme umphuphi angase asijabulele endaweni yakhe yezenhlalakahle.

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