Isigaba: ulwazi oluvamile

Ukuphatha isikhathi kubalulekile ekwenzeni umuntu asebenze kahle futhi akhiqize. Kuphinde kusize abantu ukuthi bazuze yonke into abayifunayo ngendlela ehlelekile nesebenza ngempumelelo. Ukuze ulawule isikhathi sakho ngokuphumelelayo, kumelwe ulandele izinyathelo ezithile ezihleliwe, esizichaze esihlokweni esilandelayo. [caption id="attachment_297414" align="aligncenter" width="870"] Qala ngokuhlela isikhathi sakho ngempumelelo[/caption] Kuyini ukuphatha isikhathi okufanele? Ukuze uphathe isikhathi ngempumelelo...

Isizungu isimo sangaphakathi lapho isiguli sizizwa sidabukile futhi sinesifiso sokuzihlukanisa, esithinta kabi umuntu emazingeni angokwengqondo, ngokomzimba nangokwenhlalo. Kulesi sihloko, sizoxoxa ngezimbangela ezibaluleke kakhulu zesizungu naphezu kokuba nabangane abaningi nendlela yokubhekana naso. [caption id="attachment_297410" align="aligncenter" width="710"] Yiziphi izimbangela zesizungu naphezu kokuba nabangane abaningi nokuthi ngingabhekana kanjani naso?[/caption] Kungani ngizizwa nginesizungu...

Kukhona ezinye izindlela ezikusiza ukuthi uthuthukise amakhono engqondo futhi usebenzise amandla engqondo ukuze ukhiqize kakhudlwana. Ingqondo yomuntu inamakhono amaningi amangalisayo, kodwa umuntu kufanele awathuthukise ukuze akwazi ukuwasebenzisa ngendlela ezuzisayo. Nazi izinyathelo ezibaluleke kakhulu ongazilandela esihlokweni esilandelayo: [caption id="attachment_297403" align="aligncenter" width="729"] Amakhono engqondo[/caption] Asho ukuthini amakhono engqondo? Amakhono engqondo...

Ukuvela kokuqala kuyisici esibalulekile abantu okufanele banake lapho behlangana nomuntu abangamazi noma bevakashela indawo entsha. Kulesi sihloko, sizophendula umbuzo obaluleke kunayo yonke abantu abaningi, ikakhulukazi intsha, abanawo: Kungani umbono wokuqala ubaluleke kangaka ekuxoxweni komsebenzi? [i-id yamagama-ncazo = "okunamathiselwe_297398" align="aligncenter" width="720"] Imuphi umbono wokuqala ovela kunhlolokhono yomsebenzi?[/caption] Yini...

Abantu abazimele bavame ukuba nezici eziningi ezihlukile ezenza wonke umuntu ajabulele ukusebenza nabo, noma ubuntu babo bufane nobo, ngoba bayabasekela ekufinyeleleni imigomo yabo ngokushesha nangempumelelo. Lokhu kwenza wonke umuntu azibuze: Yiziphi izici zabantu abazimele ezibahlukanisa nabanye? Kufanele kusingathwe kanjani? Futhi ezinye izinto eziningi ezihlobene nalokhu ...

Ukukhathala okungapheli kwengqondo yisimo abantu abaningi abasitholayo, esibonakala ngemizwa yokuphelelwa ithemba, ukukhathazeka, nokudabuka okukhulu. Umuntu futhi uzizwa ekhathele futhi ekhathele ngaphandle kokwenza noma yimuphi umzamo. Lesi sihloko sizoba umhlahlandlela wakho ophelele wokuqeda ukukhathala kwengqondo okungapheli. [caption id="attachment_297385" align="aligncenter" width="720"] Umhlahlandlela wakho ophelele wokuqeda ukukhathala okungapheli kwengqondo[/caption] Kuyini ukukhathala kwengqondo okungapheli futhi kubangelwa yini?

Ukufunda amakhono amasha omuntu siqu kunomthelela ekwenzeni umuntu abe nolwazi oluthe xaxa, kusiza ukwandisa ubudlelwano bakhe nomphakathi, futhi kuvule ama-horizons amasha okwakhiwa komsebenzi nokwakhiwa kwamakhono. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuthi abantu ngabanye bakukhuthalele ukuzithuthukisa ukuze bakwazi ukuhambisana nezinguquko ezibazungezile. [caption id="attachment_297370" align="aligncenter" width="800"] Amakhono omuntu siqu nendima yawo ekuzithuthukiseni[/caption] Ayini amakhono...

Ukulahlekelwa uthando kukwenza ungakwazi ukwenza lutho empilweni yakho futhi kunomthelela ekutheni ungakwazi ukuzithuthukisa. Ngakho-ke, kufanele wazi zonke izindlela ezisebenzayo zokubuyisela uthando nomdlandla empilweni ukuze ukwazi ukubhekana nalolu daba ngendlela efanele. [i-id yamagama-ncazo = "okunamathiselwe_297360" align="aligncenter" wide="653"] Izindlela ezisebenzayo zokubuyisa uthando nomdlandla...

Ukuqeda imicabango eyinkohliso nokulawula ingqondo, ziningi izindlela okufanele uzilandele ukuze uzinqobe, njengokuzivocavoca umzimba, ukuzindla, neminye imicabango eminingi. Ukuze wazi ukuthi ungabhekana kanjani nale micabango, kufanele wazi izinhlobo zemicabango, izinga lomthelela wayo kuwe, nezindlela ezifanele zokuyigwema nokuzithuthukisa wena. Yilokhu esikuchazile esihlokweni esilandelayo:...

Ukuhaha kuyisici esenza umuntu anganeliseki ngalokho anakho futhi aqhubeke elwela ukuba nezinto eziningi, ngisho noma kulahlekelwa abanye. Umuntu ohahayo ngokuvamile ubonisa ubugovu obucacile, uthando lokufuna izinto eziningi, nokuntula ukwaneliseka ngalokho anakho. Kulesi sihloko, sizofunda ngezici zokuziphatha ezivelele kakhulu ezihlukanisa umuntu ohahayo nokuthi ziyithinta kanjani impilo nobudlelwano bakhe. [i-id yamagama-ncazo = "okunamathiselwe_297348" align="aligncenter" wide="720"] Izici...

Isibindi siwuphawu oluvame ukudingeka ukuze umuntu akwazi ukubhekana nezinkinga ezinzima kanye nezinguquko abhekana nazo. Kuphinde kube nomthelela omkhulu kulabo ababazungezile, ngakho-ke kuthathwa njengophawu olubalulekile okufanele wonke umuntu alwele ukuluthola ukuze aguqule impilo yakhe ibe ngcono. [caption id="attachment_297342" align="aligncenter" width="678"] Izinyathelo ezikwenza ube nesibindi[/caption] Yiziphi izinyathelo ezikwenza ube nesibindi?...